I grew up with horses at home and after 25 yrs of boarding finally built. When we were looking for land, the home and a barn just could.not.find.it.all together. The cost to build is probably 2x than buying but you get what you want and the benefits are, I’d like to say priceless but wow do you go through money. So not priceless at all. And, building is not for the faint of heart.
I remember being irritated with my husband telling me I needed to know the requirements on every aspect of building or it might not get done right. And I mean like you WERE the contractor. He was right. Even when you DO detail to the contractor that you understand what is needed and that is what you want done and you confirm that is what will be done, unless you are standing there watching them it sometimes doesn’t happen. So if you build, can you be there most days to oversee the project?
You either have a GC (general contractor) to scope the whole project and keep things from going wrong or you know what is needed on every aspect. Even with us knowing things still went wrong. I think this happens to most everyone.
I’m going to push back because you do want that too. Are you home all day every day? Do you have to work and be gone all day or do you have endless flexibility with your day? That’s huge. I have flexibility for the farrier and vet but mostly am gone all day during the week and it’s hard. I still need to get cameras up and that will be a huge relief. To see them at a glance. My husband isn’t a horse person so I’m kind of on my own in many ways in horsesense.
Are your finances such that you can afford the conveniences because they matter IMO. Having a tractor for example and that’s what $15k right there? The equipment alone - truck, trailer, tractor, front end loader, forks, snow blade, mowers, hauling trailer, other implements, tools.
Before building I thought I could do my daily work in the time I drove back and forth to the barn - 40 min. Nope. Twice that. But what really gets you is ALL the other farm management, things breaking, maintenance, replacing supplies.
Which leads me to layout and efficiency. I designed my place for the least amount of steps. Turnout right from the drylot attached to the barn. Huge lean right at the stalls. Auto waterers. Tractor w front end loader to make tipping the muck buckets with least amount of effort. Composting manure to build soil. Efficiency matters.
You’ll need turnout which means acreage and safe fencing. Which means mowers and implements and where will you store all that? Air compressors and tools and does your partner know how to fix all things? My husband grew up on a farm and let me tell you that IS priceless. He’s irreplaceable. And if your partner doesn’t know all these things is he/she willing to make this their lifestyle and learn?
Do you need to ride? I have a friend that never put in an arena and home alone. She’s worn out after years of horses at home. All work and no play. You need to budget for an arena of some kind. Either way it’s expensive depending on your soil and subsoil, right?
And you NEED to spend time training - keeping your horses worked mentally and physically for their health and if something happened to you, right? So they could land a good home.
Are you OK alone or do you plan to have a boarder? Boarders can be complicated. Someone else in your house. A roommate. I love being alone and always did at the barn too. Enjoyed hacking out with someone but otherwise enjoy my alone time in peace with my animals. But being alone has its own challenges for sure.
With all that said, I have a story I tell non horse friends about having horses at home. When you board you mostly aren’t in control. If you don’t like something you sometimes need to leave and we know options are limited, right? So I describe it like having a dog but it doesn’t live with you. It lives at the kennel. You go visit it, take it out for hours several times a week and you return it. And it only sees you those few hours 4-5 times a week. People with dogs are horrified when I say that. They can’t imagine.
Horses at home is deep. You are seeing them often 4-5 times a DAY. You are in control and have a profound impact on their mental and physical health like never before. I grew up with horses mostly turned out, not stalled and they were healthy and happy. Colics and injuries were rare. And that has been my experience these past 4 years. They’re relaxed because they have forage 24/7. They are not stalled so they are moving more. I deeply bed their open stalls and boy do they lay down at night and get off their feet.
My latest feeling is wanting them moving MORE - plan is to put in a big wide track around the property. I’m a BIG believer in the more they move the healthier they are. Just like us. That’s my last huge project on my vision board. It’ll cost in the neighborhood of $30-50k I estimate. I laugh even writing that number. The spending is insane.
I’ve learned horses only sleep 2 hrs a day. Did you know that? And yes, they are waiting for me at 5:30am for the start to the day. And awake at final well-check at 9:30 at night.
There’s a great documentary about a couple in California who bought a farm and it’s all their happiness and all their challenges and isn’t that the truth.
This feels like my life but in no way to the degree of what went wrong for them. We pretty much gutted a house and renovated, restored 20 acres of land and then built the horse facilities. Now that’s a journey.
So if you decide to really take the plunge be ready for every emotion and possibly spend lots of money.
I’d love to hear your thoughts on my post too. Good luck no matter what you decide.