When we bought bare land we had it perc-ed as part of our PPE. The guy who did the test picked the site . . . I’m guessing because with his engineering background and history of living and working in the area that he knew the different soil types, could pick out different soil types/elevations/appropriate sites on the property and use his professional experience to suggest the correct places.
Hire professionals. Let them do their work.
Hire the perc-testing or septic guy to come out and do the test and see what he says about the best way to place the septic. For some properties there may be only one obvious solution for a simple system that does not require a lot of engineering.
Look at the environment around you, or go on Google earth for a different vantage point. Many times it is clear by the flora or drainage patterns where the water goes. Keep your house and barn away from there.
Hire someone who does dousing to come out to the property and see where will be the best place for a well. It sounds like a bunch of hoo-ha, but I’ve known multiple people who have used dousers and swear by them (even when the traditional well-driller thought he had the best spot).
You don’t need a builder per se to help you at this point, but a soils engineer might be a good person to consult with so you have an idea of what kind of soil you have, where might be good building spots, if you need to do any leveling or filling in order to create better options, etc.
And know that it will cost more to build than to buy.