I don’t think you know what the definition of gaslighting is 
“Gaslighting is a form of psychological manipulation in which a person or a group covertly sows seeds of doubt in a targeted individual or group, making them question their own memory, perception, or judgment, often evoking in them cognitive dissonance and other changes including low self-esteem”
Nobody, and I mean not a single person on this thread, is doing anything but presenting facts about how this industry works. Memory isn’t a fact. Perception isn’t a fact. Judgement isn’t a fact. Those things may be BASED on facts, but they can also be based on non-facts, and that’s what everyone is pointing out.
You clearly don’t understand insurance of any sort, or the definition of predatory practices. Correcting you is not gaslighting.
The closest definition of predatory I can find in relation to this is about predatory lending:
“Predatory lending is any lending practice that imposes unfair or abusive loan terms on a borrower. It is also any practice that convinces a borrower to accept unfair terms through deceptive, coercive, exploitative or unscrupulous actions for a loan that a borrower doesn’t need, doesn’t want or can’t afford.”
You (borrower) feel you need this product. So, that’s out.
You (borrower) fee you want this product. That’s out.
You (borrower) apparently can afford this product, so that’s also out.
Not a single person is trying to convince you to buy this product, so it’s ALL out right from the start.