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Sigh. Yes. I do catch myself bracing, although only on this horse. (See wee pony, on whom I can be very calm and loose, in exact same saddle: https://www.instagram.com/p/BIlKYOyBySb/?taken-by=ohtislove) My regular trainer (who we trailer in to at least once a week) reminds me of this every time she catches me. He is a much bigger mover than my wee pony, and because I don’t feel solid in my dressage saddles, I find myself bracing.
I’ve started doing yoga this year to work on the tight hips and painfully tight hamstrings, and have started to see some improvement. I have an old injury that I try to protect.
I have a picture of me in a deeper seat from this spring (a Cardanel Olympian MKII, which I at least consider deep!) but it’s a bit too atrocious to post publicly. :lol: Happy to PM.
Do you work for a particular tack shop? I’m happy to work with someone to test ride in some saddles with video. The budget is there for a new one.[/QUOTE]
I would agree with all the posters that say your position problem is more fundamental than the saddle you are riding in.
In all 3 photos, you are in a bit of a chair seat, meaning that your heel is not really under the midpoint of your hip, but rather scooting a little forward (indeed, very chair seat on wee pony where you say you are most relaxed). And yes, you do look braced against the stirrup. In the 2 horse photos, you are also tilting forward on your pelvis, which is causing your butt to move backwards relative to everything else, and you have an overarched small of your back. Did you start out in hunter/jumper? These are common problems people develop in those disciplines, where they aren’t as much of an issue if you can do a secure two-point for the actual jumping.
I can see why your coach is telling you to move your leg back. But if that is all your coach is telling you, then you need to go find some seat lessons with someone who is a more nuanced observer of human biomechanics, and can get you doing exercises on the longe line to loosen up your hips. You might also want to try some massage or chiro, or physical therapy, to get yourself evaluated for imbalances.
The reason I say get some extra input here, is that I expect that you can’t get your leg under you for any substantial length of time, because the problem is not in your leg, or in your concentration and effort, but rather further up your body in your hips and pelvis.
In fact, it is possible that when your coach says “get your leg back,” you make an effort to drop your heels, and this makes you brace against the stirrups and effectively pushes your butt back in the saddle.
“Heels down” and “legs back” are basic riding instructions, but they only address the visible problem, not the source of the problem. So while they work for teaching people who have no physical restrictions (ie, ten year olds), they don’t work when the rider has restrictions that are causing the problems. I suspect that a lot of coaches, faced with a student who has persistent position problems, end up secretly thinking “well, that’s just Suzie, she’s never going to be a really great rider,” or even “well, Suzie just isn’t trying hard enough, she can’t concentrate on her position.” And then they treat the basic position problem as a “work-around,” that is a glitch that they can’t solve, and continue on with what they can teach you.
I found myself starting to ride in a bit of a chair seat when maresy had a spell of balk and buck. I wanted to be secure in my seat, so I jammed my heels down trying to get deeper in my seat, which pushed my butt back in the saddle (a bit like a western bronc rider). My coach was grumbling about this until the day I explained I was trying to get a deeper seat, and she showed me what she does, which is to drop the thigh back and deep, and then the rest of the leg and the foot follows. I started practicing that, and it has started to become a natural feeling. I also finally started to see what coach means by saying “you kneel in the saddle like you are kneeling in a pew.”
Interestingly, my coach kept saying that I must have really tight hips, because of my chair seat, which I didn’t really think I had. And then it turned out it was in fact a conceptual thing; when I learned how to drop my thigh, my seat really improved.