I’m sure sometimes that’s the case, lowroller, but often, I think it’s that the person criticizing simply isn’t familiar with how riders develop and simply has expectations that are not in keeping with the situation.
In fact, lowroller, this situation reminds me very much of the total panning that Martin Schaudt’s video of his student riding his schoolmaster, and learning flying changes, pirouettes and other work.
People thought the video was ‘TERRIBLE’. Very few people enjoyed it at all.
I LOVED it. It was such a pleasure to watch. NO it was not perfect! So what!
And in that case, lowroller, i am CONVINCED that much of the reaction was simple jealousy. People were just really pissed off to see a young gal have access to such a nice horse and instructor. So they tore it apart.
For example, I saw the rider’s seat plop in the saddle a little. It just did not bother me - it was tiny, it was just not worth picking on, and I don’t even think it’s appropriate to point it out right now. The horse is a little stiff, a little upright - it will improve and she will get more flexible in her back.
There is SO MUCH GOING RIGHT, i am just not worried. AT ALL.
I think one of the toughest things for a trainer/instructor to learn, both in regard to horse and rider, is when to say, ‘it doesn’t matter’.
I’ve watched many less experienced instructors scream and scream and yell at students that they are doing A, B, C, D, when at that stage, the student could not possibly be expected to do anything else.
I was watching a friend’s lesson once when some rail jockey made a comment about something that was not perfect. The teacher turned around and shouted at the top of her lungs, ‘FIRST THINGS FIRST, IT IS TOTALLY INAPPROPRIATE TO WORRY ABOUT THAT RIGHT NOW - AND - WHEN I WANT YOUR HELP, I’LL ASK FOR IT!’
In the large and flaming silence that followed, few little giggles were heard, but the commenter quit ‘commenting’, LOL.
I once watched someone who I think is one of the really great instructors in the United States, Vera Kessells, Mike Barisone’s wife.
A rider came in with a horse that was completely out of control, the rider was sitting - I don’t really know how anyone could sit WORSE, or more crookedly. The horse was tearing around completely off balance, crooked, terrible on the reins, stiff as a board, ignoring the leg totally at times and reacting like they were red hot pokers at other times, and - well it was just really unbelievable that the rider was brave enough to get up on this thing. It was one of the worst things I’ve ever seen at a clinic.
And in about 20 minutes, the horse was going around looking a whole hell of a lot more normal, the rider was starting to feel how she was crooked and correcting it.
I have to say - it was really like a miracle. Vera just got in there and started talking in that loud, clear, VERY positive voice of hers that just says to people ‘YOU CAN DO THIS, YOU CAN CHANGE THIS’. Basics basics basics, nothing fancy, no tricks, no wierd stuff - just BASICS.
I’m not saying she’s the only one like this, but she IS like this, and we need more people in dressage like Vera Kessells.