Hello Everyone
I’m a long- time lurker but first time poster (as you can see!) and I’m hoping to get some opinions on my current situation.
I’ve been out of the H/J scene for a while (family/ career) and got back in a year or so ago. I went with a coach that had been recommended by several people but I IMHO find them on the controlling side.
I currently take several lessons a week (2- 3x) with them and they are very good at coaching; detailed ordinated, patient and kind to the horses BUT everything I do with my horse (that I own) must be pre-approved by them.
I would never do anything to endanger myself or my horse and have owned/showed/cared for horses before I took a break from riding.
Is this type of control common now? Or is it just my coach?
Side note: I’m not at an “A” or BNT barn.
Thanks