I would search for FB groups local to your area and ask this question there as well, to get a feel of the pulse of the community vis a vis what breed is suitable for your area, what breeds are saleable or easily rehomeable to 4H if processing is not palatable to your DGD.
You will need good fencing and a good sense of humor. They are crafty but find the most stupid ways to get hurt. If you don’t debud the horns, they get stuck in ways you wouldn’t imagine. I extracted one from a hay net that was hung 4ft up last week.
Our goat pens are standard 4 board fencing with chicken wire on the outside. Some of the smarter ones can climb over it.
Prepare to have your goat vet on speed dial. They seem to get hurt more often than horses.
The genuinely small breeds (pygmy, nigerian dwarfs and mini nubians) are as about hardy as wet paper. I like Lamancha and Boer the best for hardiness and resale value.
No matter what breed you get, they are loud and equipped with ceaselessly untiring pipes. We are between two farms with our south-east side bordered by residences/suburbs. All three farms (including us) have goats. Our neighbors bitch constantly about the noise and they’re not wrong. The goats are loud. I’ve learned to tune it out as I go about my chores.
We have (boer) does and bucks. The bucks are born dopey and sweet, and are much more tractable than the does. Some of the does are sweet too, but not always tractable. Bucks get much bigger, though. The non-breeding males are castrated (wethers), we haven’t had much an issue with urinary calculi yet, it seems only our valuable breeding stock seems to incur vet bills 
The bucks will stink.
I am not convinced the smaller goats are less work. Both need to be halter broke and taught to respect space.
Whatever breed you get, they do need some grooming, trimming, and general care you’d associate with a horse.
Goats add a lot of “amusement” factor, but they are work.
And they are the WORST hay wasters ever. It drives me nuts how much hay they waste even if you put it in a manger or net. They might eat 10% of a good, high quality flake and trample and pee on the rest. Even our pickest hay connoisseur horse inhales our homegrown hay… Not the goats.