Counting Our Horse-Related Blessings In This Crazy Year

This is a post I made on my farm Facebook page this morning, but I thought it was worth sharing here. 2020 has been a crazy ride for me, starting with landing my dream job and moving back to the town where I went to college. Then came my long-awaited mini-farm purchase, followed swiftly by the COVID crisis. Later in the spring, my father passed away, and then two months later I brought home my first broodmare. To say it’s been a roller coaster has been an understatement! Anyway, here’s my post:

Happy Thanksgiving, friends! On this day of reflection and gratitude, I’d like to share the story behind this image.

If you look carefully at the my right wrist in this photo, you will see a bracelet made from the tail hair of Montanas Shadow, the Half Arabian gelding who was my first horse. Montana wasn’t royally bred or exceptionally talented, nor was he without significant quirks. But he taught me almost everything I know about patience, persistence, and the power of the horse-human bond. In the fall of 2017, Montana was euthanized after a long struggle with mysterious lameness issues that were never fully diagnosed, even upon necropsy. Two weeks later, I put down a deposit on an in-utero foal by Shiner Dun It and out of SAS Arielle.

I had originally contacted Stacey Newville of Trickle Creek Ranch about a different Al Marah bred mare in her broodmare herd. After an extensive conversation about my preferences and goals, she convinced me to consider Arielle instead as the dam of my future foal. Watching videos of Arielle moving both at liberty and under saddle sealed the deal for me - she so very much resembled by beloved Montana in conformation, movement, and personality that I was immediately hooked. The only thing left to do then was wait for the arrival of my foal.

It was not a smooth journey. Arielle suffered a freak accident two months before giving birth; initially, it wasn’t clear whether she would survive her injury, let alone give birth to and raise a healthy foal. Arielle is a tough mare, though, and she healed better than anyone expected. Then, just after weaning, Sydney came down with a mystery virus and ran a terrifyingly high fever for nearly a week. But finally, finally, 18 months after losing my once-in-a-lifetime horse and putting down a deposit on an unborn foal, Sydney stepped off a friend’s trailer and into my possession for the first time.

I didn’t think I’d ever be able to love another horse the way I loved Montana. Sydney proved me wrong. I didn’t think I’d ever meet a horse smarter or more personable than he was; Sydney has defied my expectations. Most people are lucky to have ONE once-in-a-lifetime horse, and I’ve had two. It was a wild ride that brought my beautiful little Barbie Pony into my life, but I would go through it all again in a heartbeat.

On this day of reflection and gratitude, I count my blessings. And this filly is at the top of that list.

So, how about some positivity this morning. What are you thankful for (horse-related) this year?

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That is a wonderful post! Thanks for sharing.

I’m incredibly thankful for my horse this year. Since bringing the baby home in January, she has continued to defy my expectations for how a baby acts. She’s an easy keeper, undramatic, unmarish yearling who doesn’t put a hoof out of place. I was worried about turning her out full time for the winter but she’s doing better than ever and managed to befriend the grumpy boss mare. She’s kept me sane during these trying times and I’m beyond thankful that I’ve been able to spend time with her during these trying times.

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I am so thankful that I still have my mare and that we are at such a great barn.
Sheilah

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I had big plans for 2020 after a couple of tough years. This was going to be my Endurance year.

My year started with my back throwing in the towel in January. I had trouble riding for half an hour, let alone half a day. But it got better and I was almost back to normal in early March. I started looking for a truck to haul my trailer thinking I’d take my time and actually bought one the first time I went to look at a different truck.

Ten days later we were locked down, I put in extra time at work and my back gave out again.

I am thankful for the chiropractor who took me on as an emergency patient and got me well enough to ride my first 25mile.

I am thankful for my older horse who played therapy horse when all I could manage was 15min at the walk. Those therapy rides helped me get through physically and mentally the stresses from my back, the pandemic, the increased demands at work, and losing my Mum six weeks after she was diagnosed with cancer. My older horse has been with me for all of his 22 years - he is my rock in this sea of chaos.

I am also thankful for my younger horse who really stepped up this year. We have done a bunch of new to him things and he’s handled them fantastically well. He did the 25 mile Endurance ride with me, making me burst with pride and joy.

That truck I bought gave me the freedom to get out to ride in different places and socialize in a safely physically distanced manner with a few others, or simply go out solo with my older horse.

My back is not 100%, I know my older horse only has a few years left, and I miss my Mum, but 2020 has definitely had some very good things for me.

Thanks for starting this thread OP! I hope your girl is everything you want her to be! :star_struck:

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This has been a packed year for us.

Started with getting “a” buddy horse for Socks as he was a yearling needing company. Ended up with two new horses, Bonnie from the Morgan Safetynet program and Lakota from a really poor situation.

Bonnie is the Bay, Lakota the Buckskin… this was taken at Bonnie 21st birthday party grand kids are hold the leads (Sucha is the Golden in the foreground, she was the city of Euless Tx volunteer of the year 2019 as a reading dog visiting the library to help kids learn to read)

The two are best of friends, either tolerates the young Socrates

Socrates was not shown much as a 2 year old this year, but he went to Morgan Nationals winning his class and won Sport Horse In-Hand Championship …not bad for the kid to beat all the other much older horses (and he reminds me that he Is a World Champion every time he does some wrong like knock over everything in the barn)

Our grand kids have been spending a lot of time here as they only live a few miles away. They rescued a goat in the spring, hand raised, bottle fed and all that. When the goats was returned to the owner the goat refused to join his goat herd so he asked if they wanted “Cupcake” back. They did. We convert the tool shed into the goat palace. Cupcake was lonely so they got Clover to be her buddy, but Clover came with Chip so now there are three goats. The kids are clicker training the goats to do tricks for food.

Son was in Norway on a curse ship looking for possible locations for a client when it was announced the flights between Europe and the US were to be stopped, The ship docked in Hell, Norway they were able to get a flight to England then one of the last flights NYC. (which was important since Hieldi is a green card resident of the US) As New York City started locking down he was able to close down his office in Manhattan, moving the day to day operation to his farm in Pennsylvania… and this October he married Hieldi who is the most wonderful daughter in law one could ever hope for she is a very talented person. They had met during one of the fashion productions that my son directed.

During the lock down, they make this series of videos about their quarantine at the farm
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=eaEETFzHByQ

Wife retired in late May after her employer refused to handle the COV19 correctly. She has been constantly busy since with all the happeniing.

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I’m actually quite grateful for how the shake-up of 2020 ended up affecting my horse life, which is also my professional life. Mostly, I am grateful that I had the TIME to pursue my next chapter, instead of working as much as I used to. But I’m also thankful there was some work ready and waiting for me, for the sake of my bank account and mental health. I am so very grateful to the friends who opened their (barn) doors to me this summer for me to both practice my bodywork and get in the socializing that really matters - barn chat. I’m quite excited for what is next!

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So thankful my boys are kept at home. So thankful for my two boys and their very different personalities. Thankful we haven’t had any major health issues this year (horse or self).

Thankful for the time to step back and really achieve some amazing connection with my dressage horse instead of trying to achieve showing goals. And of course means we’ll be even better when showing does happen again.

Thankful I got my husband on my trail gelding this year, and he even committed to buying a helmet!! One step closer to hitting the trails together someday.

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I like the others have had an interesting year that when looked at only through my horse crazy eyes really has been pretty good. After retiring my breeding program a few years ago I thought I was down to regular trail riding and campaigning the one home bred I chose to keep. We were on target for showing/campaigning second level. Well covid hit and that shifted my focus, back to training. So with that being the only sight in my focus, I’ve been able to establish flying changes and solidify our second level work probably much better than I would have done with the stress of showing. I really haven’t missed showing; but do look forward to being able to show next year with a better handle on our current level than I’ve approached it in the past. Nice having a very confident pony and not having to ‘eek’ it out in competition.

I then realized that being one used to training and bringing along 2-3 at a time that I had free time on my hands. I couldn’t travel or really go anywhere so what’s a former breeder to do? Well I purchased an unstarted 3 year old Morgan colt (gelded just before purchase) who has turned out to be ‘the bomb’. He’s smart, confident and desires to please. He is progressing very well. I couldn’t have asked for better.

I also found a free lease situation for my retired pony. He is now a companion to a retired Budweiser hitch Clydesdale. Even better the ‘new home’ for my little guy is with a colleague; so, I can see the stinker pony whenever I ‘need to get a pony hug’. I’d been looking for the right situation for a couple of years and thought when covid hit I would be a long way off from finding him a job. This situation is PERFECT.

Being an essential worker who’s been working throughout this year in less than ideal conditions, the horsey side of life has definitely been the escape and vacation from the stress that has been sorely needed after each day on job. I am grateful to be able to enjoy such a respite each time I walk out my back door.

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Having my 3 at home has been comforting.
Plus, living where I am pretty much self-isolated makes this New Normal less stressful.
I cannot imagine living (as I used to) in a major big city.
I feel for my City friends, some living in apartments, virtual prisoners.

My biggest impact from the pandemic is losing my weekly volunteer job of 20+yrs - in the aforementioned city.
Pantry protocols changed to accommodate the virus & made my 80mi RT a luxury as well as my presence expendable.
Hoping for that to return to business as usual as many fellow volunteers are also friends.

While I miss the few competitions I did annually, I was still able to go on Club Drives.
I’m willing to give 2020 a pass & look forward to a better 2021.

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It has been a good year for me horse-wise as well. Last winter was miserable with finishing the under saddle rehab on my appendix mare who had just gotten to a competent training level before fracturing her coffin bone and subsequently injuring her DDFT. She was cleared for work in March and has come on so well over the course of this year. I think we’ll be well on our way to second level by spring. Ironically, covid brought my regular instructor to town more regularly than before, so I’ve had more consistent lessons this year than ever in my adult life.

I also started my 4 yo WB mare in July, and although she is making me rethink my usual training approach, I think she will ultimately be quite nice. When she is cooperating, she is delightful to ride.

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This has been a very wild and unexpected year for me. Saddle time was the only thing that kept me sane. Due to Covid, I’m a little further behind in schedule towards getting my degree than I’d like. (New degree= new job at almost double my current salary= horse money!!! At least that’s my life plan).

But unexpectedly I got an offer to lease an older mare. And for once in my life I can afford it! :smiling_face_with_three_hearts: She’s a sweet cupcake. I know it’s not the same as owning a horse, and it’s just temporary for 4 months…but this is the closest I’ve ever been to a horse of my own and I’m so so grateful for it! There’s nothing in the world like walking into a stable, smelling that sweet hay and horses and seeing a small head poking out and knowing that’s your horse to go brush and ride and love on.

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Now that I’m employed again, I finally got back on a horse for the first time in 8 ish months. Blissful blessing!

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I am , as always , thankful to have my horses at home. I had shoulder surgery last December and in February I was feeling so good I purchased a yearling gelding.

I am so thankful I did. My current mare who is 16 was just diagnosed with both Ringbone and Sidebone. While she is still ridable and I will continue to ride her, I am so thankful to have a youngster to start riding this Spring.

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