I’ve deduced that my biggest issue with my riding is the fact that I have a very forward/driving seat. This is obviously most evident during the sitting gaits (sitting trot and canter).
I tend to push myself backwards, lean a bit backwards and my legs go forward and this is driving the horses forward. From there my aids are all ineffective since every movement either causes the horse to speed up even more and my half halts are pretty much useless unless I exert a good amount of strength but hitting the gas and the brakes at the same time usually doesn’t do much.
I’ve had this issue for a while now. It’s worse on some horses than others depending upon the size of the horse, bounciness, saddle, etc. but in general it’s always prominent.
My trainer has offered me no help with this so I’m on my own with respect to rectifying this issue. I love riding without stirrups and I do so whenever I’m out on trail. It helps a little when I do arena work on my own but it doesn’t fully solve the problem.