Long story short, my boy is a bit creaky, diagnosed with kissing spines, but after injections was going really well and my saddle was def not doing him any favors, he needed a new saddle. So i had custom rep out. Horse did best in the icon star, and i really liked the secure seat with a defined pocket. But the blocks on it were horrible for me. So we custom ordered my dream saddle, brown with sapphire blue crystals. In the meantime i did not want to put my saddle back on him because it was making his kissing spine area hurt. So i found a used star to buy for short term, with a plan to either have it refit to my mare or sell it when my special saddle was delivered.
Cue fate. 2 weeks after i ordered saddle, my horse went lame. Badly lame. Did massage. Chiro, bute, nothing helped. Got vet out. He was very guarded about my boys chances of coming back to riding soundness. We xrayed front feet, he prescribed wedge shoes. Injected spine, stifles, hocks, and put him on meloxicam for rest of his life. Vet checked him 2 weeks later and was amazed. He said try light riding no more than 4 days per week, and gave him another osphos injection. So he has been ridden 3 to 4 days a week for the last 6 weeks. 2 weeks ago during my lesson he pulled up dead lame on lt hind again. I thought that was it. Hes done, but my daughter massaged him, weinimented, wore back on track sheet for 24 hours, and 2 days later he was 9p percent better.
Then my custom ordered saddle showed up. Its beautiful, but the seat is not at all as expected for an icon star. It is visibly more open, no sweat spot pocket. So i have a valid reason to refuse it. I will lose my 1000 dep if i dont order new saddle within 6 months. But should i be dropping 6k on a saddle for a jorse who is clearly nearing the end of his riding career? Especially since the seat is not how it should be? Saddle fitter says it will “develop” the pocket as the seat breaks in. I said the brand new saddle she put me in to try when we fitted had the pocket without breaking in, and she tried to convince me that the blocks on that saddle made it feel like thete was a pocket but there really wasnt.
Does anyone have any experience with how the feel/positioning of these seats changes as they break in? My trainer says send saddle back and maybe we atart casually looking for new mount. Of course i cant imagine paying board on 3 horses. One of them is my sons but he only rides once a week max now that hes married, but shes coming 21 and has dsld so no way can i rehome her. Feiw i have NEVER been comfortable riding her, but my new trainer has helped me to feel safe on her altho i still dont enjoy riding her. I let the trainer use her fir lessons and she LOVES her little girls. So she has a job and is happy at least.
Anyway just seeking unbiased thoughts on what to do here. If my boy had gone lame BEFORE i ordered the saddle, i def would not have done it