I am THRILLED to know the meaning behind the tradition. You have zero idea how happy that makes me. Or maybe you do - but regardless, thank you JSwan, for taking the moment to let us know.
Did I mention that I’m an etiquette junkie? No seriously…my book of Emily Post is well worn and though I don’t always follow it well, I love to learn about it and am attempting however futile it may be (and trust me, it’s more futile than not) to teach my boys which fork is appropo.
Actually, despite the fact that it is a personal…erm…obsession for me, I love and respect tradition and learning the meaning behind all of “the rules”. It’s one of the things that drew me to the hunter ring years ago, and one of the things that has me completely and positively magnetized to hunting.
I haven’t been to the races in several years - not since the Preakness year when Big Brown was racing…what was that, 07? 08? It’s been awhile. I did buy quite a lovely hat for that occasion but it was quite plain as my sundress was fancy enough and it required a plain hat that was easily packable and crushable. I wish I lived closer to a track. Or a hunt. Or both. Or anything horsey for that matter. But my husband just committed to 10 years with his employer. sigh We could have a long distance relationship, couldn’t we? Somehow I doubt he’d go for that.
Manydogs, did you drive up? How far was that for you?