Went to bed eagerly anticipating the morning’s hunt. I swear I checked all of my clothes fourteen times before I finally was able to hit the pillow and sleep. I was filled with a nervous excitement that I hadn’t felt in years, and of course, as with all horse sports, the more nervous you are, the more poorly things tend to go, so then I was meta-nervous about my nerves. Phew!
Saturday morning brought a bustle of activity as everyone got ready for the morning’s hunt. The field was frosty but the sun bright and ready to burn it off readily. People began to arrive with trucks and trailers, and we did last minute spot-checks, learned to tie our stock ties properly, and tacked up. Remembering the warning from wateryglen the night before (a story that I may never forget) we all made sure we were suitably “emptied” and then into the saddle we all went.
I have to admit that it is at this point that my nerves, which had been suitably dealt with to this point, began to take over so much of the beginning of the hunt is a bit of a blur for me.
The Master arrived with the hounds while our group was positioned in front of the house for our picture. That as an amazing moment and one that will be forever etched into my brain. I felt my eyes tear up and wished that I had brought a tissue - I am not generally a cryer (to date, only two things are surefire to make me cry - one is the sound of pounding hooves, the second is the stupid “You Don’t Bring Me Flowers” song…don’t ask…I’m not sure) but I’ve got to add a third, the arrival of the hounds. After greetings were exchanged and announcements were made, we were off. We all walked calmly to a large field and separated into our three fields to wait for the Master to cast the hounds. That was the second time my eyes welled up (note to self, bring hanky next time). It was amazing to see the two fields before us follow quickly, and then it was our turn, and we were on the move.
I spent much of the early part of the hunt (as I mentioned) worried about the personal space of my horse, worried about committing some faux pas, worried that I wasn’t fit enough, worried that I was going to fall off and then just generally being worried about being worried.
Once we went down the big hill, I was forced to trust my horse. While the big hill was quite scary, it was also probably the best possible thing to have to do, as it forced me to quit worrying and trying to micromanage. I remember vividly the turning point when we got to another hill, we had gotten behind a bit which necessitated a big gallop up the next hill after going around the tree. At that point I finally decided that it was probably best if I just trusted the damn horse, bridged my reins, partially grabbed mane and flew up the hill. From that point on, the hunt became thoroughly enjoyable.
After a good bit more riding, a viewing of some amazingly gorgeous Lusitano horses and a few checks, Betsy asked us if we wanted to pop over a small coop. I knew that Betsy wouldn’t let me do it if she thought I couldn’t, and to boot I knew that she valued the horse I was riding too much to let me biff it terribly so I was given the confidence to go ahead and say yes (only moments later I questioned my sanity in making that decision). When I could finally see the coop, the horse in front of me had already gone and although it was indeed a small coop as coops go, after not having jumped anything but cross rails in four years it looked a bit like a huge stadium fence. Once again, I put my faith in Betsy’s wonderful horse, grabbed mane, was pleased that I saw a good distance about 6 strides out, and I believe I let out a war whoop upon landing (or at least a loud YESSSSSSS!). Persi jumped amazingly well and I felt like I was 10 feet tall. I believe whicker also had a great fence (I’m sure the rest of y’all did too, but I didn’t really get to see anyone else jump).
After returning to the stables, we had a lovely breakfast (and beer) and it was so neat to see everyone in their tweed jackets. The sun was shining bright and I think we were all pleased to have had such a lovely day. Though I understand it to be a slow day (thanks for bursting my bubble, wateryglen, if that’s a SLOW day then I’m in trouble) it was still a magnificent experience and the endorphin rush that I was bathing in while standing on Betsy’s porch, enjoying a cold beer and some great conversation was amazing.
I had to leave directly after that to come home, so someone else will have to take the rest of the report from here, but I do have to say that as my first experience hunting…it was truly truly truly amazing. I can see why people would rearrange their lives to be able to do it - and I’m currently plotting how to get my guy at home ready so that he’ll be great in the field. Everyone was SO welcoming, and though I internally worried about committing some grand faux pas, it didn’t feel at all like I was being judged by anyone. I had only been riding regularly again for about a month before I went so I was just borderline on the “not quite in shape enough” edge, so though I was feeling like I was just getting the hang of this moving fast in company thing, my body is thanking me for walking home when we did. I am sore in places that I wasn’t sure I ever would be.
I think the thing that I’d like to be sure to share more than anything else is that I was truly humbled and awed to be in the presence of so many great women, great horses, and to be able to participate in such a wonderful sport. I cannot begin to express my gratitude enough for the welcome that we (the hunting princesses) received. I am thankful for the opportunity that Betsy and Master Forbush provided. I am thankful for Betsy’s instruction and her kindness in letting me ride such an amazing animal.
If there are those of you reading this thread who have not participated yet I will tell you that you don’t have to be a great rider to come. You don’t have to be tremendously in shape (though a titch more than I was would have been useful), you don’t have to know everything there is to know about hunting and you don’t have to be a super-confident rider. The resident Hunting Princesses will take care of you and give you the confidence that you need to get out there. Betsy and her horses are amazing.
I’ll stop babbling now (maybe), but I just want to say again to all the resident HPs, our hosts, the wonderful coth-ers that I met…thank you. This weekend meant the world to me and I hope to repeat it again!