Been dealing with a bum knee that has continued to get worse over the past five years. Having a total knee replacement end of November. I’ve made all kinds of compromises and adjustments so that I could continue to ride…different horses, 3 step mounting block, different saddles, changed disciplines, etc but over that time I think I’ve lost some of my confidence. I enjoy riding my elder statesman who is a 21 year old fjord gelding. When I first purchased him a few years ago for my young son to learn to ride and be around horses I never imagined he’d become my “heart” horse but he has. He has done a little of everything in his life but still has a spring in his step and adjusts to whoever is riding him…super careful with beginners and yet still has “go” for me even though my “go” is sort of waning at this point.
I have my horses at home now after many years of boarding and over the past 4 years I’ve purchased and sold three horses, different ages/breeds/levels of experience. It was my intention to keep my old boy for my son and other family members to ride and purchase a new riding partner for myself to continue on with. However that being said I always find myself deciding that the “new” horse is not suitable and coming back to my old man. I currently have my older gelding and a nice little fjord mare and they get along fabulously, are easy keepers and will be simple for my family to care for while I’m recovering from my surgery for the next few months.
I’ve just come in from riding and found myself yet again going back to my old horse…have I lost all my confidence in my ability because of my bad knee? What happens when my old horse is too old? I keep comparing this mare to my gelding and making excuses about not riding her. In her defense she is a nice little mare but is somewhat green and needs more miles especially out on trails and now is probably not the time to be making comparisons. I guess I’m just feeling a bit down on myself right now and have all this unknown with the upcoming surgery.
How do you deal with confidence issues in relation to your physical issues? I don’t feel that I’m ready to give up riding completely, I enjoy riding…as long as its only my gelding.