If I didn’t drive alone, I would never drive! :lol:
It took me about 2 months before I felt confident enough to drive alone in rings, and about 2 months more before I was willing to hit the trails completely solo. Even 3 years later, I don’t like driving on the roads solo (very nutty 50-70mph traffic where I board and no shoulder), I’ve only gone alone a few times and I’ve never liked it.
I’ve always hitched solo however. In the beginning with a cart, I tacked and bridled my horse and had him single tied with a neck strap facing a fence and would hitch him there. Rather like this (starts at 3 min in): https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=EHv34wehqQ8
But with some differences… I always make sure my horse is standing square and no pawing, etc., I would hand walk my hitched horse away from the wall and point him in a safe direction before mounting, and I certainly didn’t mount the cart not holding the reins!
I didn’t do this very long however, my horse rubbed his bridle off on the fence once, and I was always afraid if he got to bouncing around the shaft tip could somehow get caught in the fence.
So then I started hitching like this: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fTrPP3542cg starts about 2:25. Again, I make sure my horse stands square.
Now with a 4 wheeler w/ folding shafts, I park the carriage in a safe spot, tack and bridle my horse at one location, then lead him to the carriage and back him into position for hitching. I wouldn’t do that with shafts that were able to be stepped on, but with the carriage, they are safely folded away.
The few times I’ve had someone head my horse or hitch one side while I do the other I’ve gotten totally confused! haha, NOT used to having another pair of hands around.
I have a moderate level of trust in my horse and my ability to keep control of a bad situation and I consider my horse moderately well broke and obedient - certainly we have much room for improvement.
But I’ve also been flung from my carriage and I can honestly say it came without warning, we weren’t doing anything wrong or reckless, and there wasn’t a darn thing I could’ve done to stop it, and I’m very lucky I didn’t lose the reins or get badly hurt, etc. Driving is dangerous, well trained horse or not.
If my horse is really blowing fireballs I will think twice about driving him if I’m the only person on the farm, but as long as there is someone around we go out and have a good time.
These sorts of things are a very individual decision. I think its always best to be on the cautious side.