Maybe I am a poser. I am an amateur rider who surely cannot jump 3’6" without giving it a hairy eye. I have bad days were I am a trainwreck, but I also have brilliant days.
What is consistent? I buy clothes specifically for the barn and I strive to look tidy every time I go to the barn. Perhaps I am shallow, but when I am dressed nicely for the barn, I am more upbeat. I am relaxed, happy, and in a good mood. Who doesn’t like looking pretty? And this transfers into my riding. Since I originally started my barn stay in a good mood, when horsey is being a bit of an ass, my original good mood helps me get through it.
So yes. I school in tailored sportsman that conceal my lumps and bumps. I wear a polo, or some “plain” V-neck shirt/long sleeve, or a super fine merino sweater, or a flannel/button down, or a down vest to look polished.
I buy these clothes for no more than $40 an article (Sans the TS breeches; I double them as my show breeches, though). I buy from Banana Republic, Gap, or J.Crew outlets… or sometimes Uniqlo has awesome sales.
Why do I do this? Because it is my way of being committed and showing dedication. When I look frumpy, I feel frumpy. Not because of how people perceive me. I really give two craps less if people think I look overdressed. I do this for myself.