Dog Breed Recommendation: Small, for an Elderly Household

I am much more familiar with the personality of larger breeds, so I thought I’d see if y’all could help me a bit.

My grandmother and I feel that her husband would really do well with the companionship of a dog. He’s also interested in the idea, now that we’ve brought it up. He dotes on his cats, but they just don’t give enough back. My grandma is a very young and active 73 (still has some horses in training) and is completely capable of all the care and training a dog needs. Plus, I would happily take any of their animals should the need ever arise.

Her husband is older and isn’t able to do as many of his hobbies these days, so he heaps love on their two cats, but they just don’t have the same connection and needs as a dog.

The reason I’m a little at a loss: they fly to Arizona for the winter every year or two and would really like something small enough that they could fly with it. Other than that, the criteria are something that would be happy to be a lap dog but confident and playful enough to enjoy going on car rides, walks and playing easy games in the yard and the house.

My grandma very much prefers what she describes as “fox faced” dogs, and I think one of the short-nosed breeds would probably not interest her. An older rescue is definitely what we’re thinking, and I thought a purebred rescue might be easier for them to work with, based on their needs. I was hoping they might be able to do a foster-to-adopt situation with the right group.

Anyway, thoughts on breeds, just to get started? The first one that came to mind for me was a papillon, and my grandma has known a few that she really liked. She’s also always had and preferred larger dogs, so her small dog familiarity is limited, like mine.

I was about to suggest a Japanese Chin when I got to the part about the face. How about a poodle? They do require regular grooming, but in a sport or puppy clip they are attractive without being frou-frou looking. They are very trainable and often do well with senior citizens. Pomeranians are very fox-like in appearance as well. A lot of people just love Papillons right now - they’re very trainable as well. Chinese Crested are come in both a hairless and a powder puff variety. I’ve known one that was really sweet. I hope that helps. Best wishes to your parents on the dog search.

Poodles are brilliant! A Toy might be great (I have only known Miniatures and one Standard but surely Toys have the same Poodle personality? Wouldn’t recommend a teacup since I don’t think there is any breed standard for them but you might find a good one anyway).

A Chihuahua? I read somewhere that Italian Greyhounds are great and low-maintenance, but I think they are fairly fragile too? I’ve never known any reps of these 2 breeds.

I have had a friend who had two MinPins at different times. Hers were badly spoilt and overfed, but still did very well despite those handicaps.

Ive had Paps for 25 years, now. They are great for elderly people - they are typically, confident, outgoing, VERY affectionate and very tuned in to their people. I can’t remember the last time I went to the bathroom alone. Even my larger Pap can fly in the cabin with us - he is 11 pounds. Very minimal grooming needs despite their lovely coats.

Jap Chins, Cavaliers, pugs…have many or all of the same characteristics :slight_smile:

They are lucky to have you help them :slight_smile:

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Ive had Paps for 25 years, now. They are great for elderly people - they are typically, confident, outgoing, VERY affectionate and very tuned in to their people. I can’t remember the last time I went to the bathroom alone. Even my larger Pap can fly in the cabin with us - he is 11 pounds. Very minimal grooming needs despite their lovely coats.

Jap Chins, Cavaliers, pugs…have many or all of the same characteristics :slight_smile:

They are lucky to have you help them :-)[/QUOTE]

We have a Pap/Doxie cross (not as weird looking as you’d think. Ours looks like a mini Sheltie - black tri-color) that I LOVE to death. After years of opinionated JRT’s, this dog is a joy. Totally non-argumentative with the other dogs, but super smart with enough moxie to defend her space and a great mouser!! Her silky long hair never tangles and I rarely see shedded hair around. I will be looking for another when this one ages out…she has never had any health issues, either!!

A Chihuahua? They’re the right size, right energy, right face, and they seem to be far easier to find in shelters/rescue than most small breeds.

Thanks for all the ideas so far! I am including chis in the mix, as there are a lot of them in rescues, and I’ve also added poodles to the mix. My other grandma has a miniature poodle who is just lovely. Their personality is right, though I know they aren’t my grandma’s favorite look, haha. She might just have to compromise a bit for the perfect pup!

I thought about an IG, but the ones I’ve met I think might not be quite right for my grandma’s husband. I’ve seen some mixes that look promising though.

Also, does anyone have any experience with Toy Fox Terriers? I’ve met a couple that I loved, but I know pretty much nothing about them as a whole. I’ve seen some listed in rescues that look like they could also fit the bill based on their descriptions, but I don’t know if they might be too terrier-y?

This dog pretty much will never have to be alone and will be played with as much as it wants, but I’m not sure my grandma would be happy with a typical terrier personality, haha.

Oh, what about Pomeranians? Again, I’ve met a few that I loved, but I’ve never spent much time with them.

Does anyone have any rescue recommendations for any of these breeds in the NW Indiana/Chicago area? I’m also thinking I could find something in my area (Houston) and get it settled in, since we regularly foster and also have cats, and then bring it home on my next trip up. So Houston-area recommendations would be great too.

I’m thinking we may just have to go meet a lot of dogs and see who clicks!

What about Norfolk or Norwich terriers - they sort of have a fox like face? Also Bichon and Westies - just thinking small dogs. And then some of the hybrid types like Yorgipoo or Schnoodles? but not fox faced but adorable IMO

My Pom has a great personality. She wants nothing more than to be with her people. And I could look at her cute little face all day. She can be yappy but I think that is typical of many small breeds. She is small (6 lbs) but not teacup. I recommend a general health, hips, back check on small dogs as ours has some issues that I believe are related to breeding smaller and for her coat color.

Faces aside, i’d have to second a doxie; have known and been related to several oldsters who’ve had them and have loved them. Dogs were calm and affectionate and easy to care for. (My 62 yo neighbor’s older sister has a long haired one that i’m going to steal when she’s not looking. :wink: )

Regarding Toy Fox Terriers - I think it would depend how much "terrier* they want to live with. They are really, really good dogs - but at the end of the day they are a terrier. Lots of drive and lots of energy.

I think they same can be said for most of the terrier breeds. It just depends on whether or not one likes the traits commonly associated with them.

I LOVE Poms! Love them!!! They always look like tiny little teddy bears.

I think for Poms, Poodles, etc and some of the terriers - you have to be sure you’re okay with regular grooming.

I think with choosing a breed, you always want to know the “down side” of any breed being considered. If you can live with the “negatives” of a given breed, then keep it on the list for consideration :slight_smile:

For Paps…if I had to come up with a negative…it would be that sometimes an individual can be difficult to housebreak.

Our Corgis all seem to be pretty reliable by 6 mos. One of my Paps was 11 months old before he was reliable…

And CrossCreek - I’m afraid we MUST demand a picture!!! Your guy sounds darling!!

i have 2 toy fox terriers, and adore them…they are FAR less energy and opinion than jrts, which I had prior to the toy fox terriers…mine are, and I understand this to be typical of the breed, energetic when they need to be, but ALWAYS ,ALWAYS ready to snuggle and be a couch potato…they are good with other animals, and at 8 and 12 lbs, the barn cats are larger…they are sturdy, love to play, and extremely bright…I have small grandkids, and once they get to know the kids, they get over the “I am so small and you move too quickly” syndrome…they do not live in fear of everything,as many chis do, but they do not have the napoleon complex,either…they will always want to be where you are,even if it means jumping out of their chair every 5 minutes to follow to back and forth when putting laundry or groceries away,etc…they are busy and alert, but not in a frenetic bothersome way…if something warrents their interest,they check it out…if not,they hang with you…not big runners/roamers,although they do love to be outside…sturdy enough for long walks/hikes,but stay close at hand…
I thnk they are GREAT…after JRTs for many years,these dogs took all the good stuff from JRT,and left out the bad stuff…

Paps, small Poodles, Min Pins (only well bred, not hysterical & barky ones), Chis. One factor might be coat length, because of Arizona, but since the dog will only be out for potty breaks, then that wouldn’t really matter much, unless the owners dislike long coats, or in the case of poodles, dogs that require frequent groomer trips. Since they fly to and from Arizona, make sure the airline they use allows in cabin animals-many commuter feeder airlines don’t.

Man, I wish you were visiting western Michigan. Dropped into our shelter yesterday to scope out another dog and found SO MANY little dogs! I think there are more than listed on this page. Vinnie, at the bottom, was so adorable (and looked cuter–freshly groomed?). They had a few min pins, too.

I have two LARGE, active Dobermans so getting a small dog that could accidently get hurt while playing is not an option. But oh, I’d LOVE to foster some of the cuties I saw!

http://poundbuddies.org/adopt/our-adoptable-dogs.html

Sorry about including ALL the dogs, but when I specified “Small”, some of the SMALL dogs were NOT included. Also, I see the Min Pins are not shown (maybe just came in) and there was a cute, CUTE Yorkie/Silky/Terrier cross (had the coloring of a Yorkie) that was a LITTLE bigger–maybe 15 lbs.?–that was A-DORABLE.

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Man, I wish you were visiting western Michigan. Dropped into our shelter yesterday to scope out another dog and found SO MANY little dogs! I think there are more than listed on this page. Vinnie, at the bottom, was so adorable (and looked cuter–freshly groomed?). They had a few min pins, too.

I have two LARGE, active Dobermans so getting a small dog that could accidently get hurt while playing is not an option. But oh, I’d LOVE to foster some of the cuties I saw!

http://poundbuddies.org/adopt/our-adoptable-dogs.html

Sorry about including ALL the dogs, but when I specified “Small”, some of the SMALL dogs were NOT included. Also, I see the Min Pins are not shown (maybe just came in) and there was a cute, CUTE Yorkie/Silky/Terrier cross (had the coloring of a Yorkie) that was a LITTLE bigger–maybe 15 lbs.?–that was A-DORABLE.[/QUOTE]

OK, totally off topic but :eek: those ears! https://www.petfinder.com/petdetail/28529983
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There are so many lovely-looking dogs in that link. Breaks my heart a bit!

Www.poodlerescueofhouston.com

Bet you could find a great companion here

I think I’d just go out there and start meeting dogs in shelters; don’t try to seek out a breed, just go meet the small dogs that are available. What they’re looking for is probably as close as the nearest shelter; they’re looking for a personality more so than a breed, it seems.

I know they are not looking for something with a round head, but if a pug came available, they are fun dogs. Never thought I’d say that, to be honest, but my mom acquired one, fun little gal, a few quirks, not as bad though, considering she came from an abuse case.
I think she looks a little like DH’s late grandmother (:)) but she is a sweet dog.

The problem with pugs and other short nose breed is the trips to and from Arizona, because even though they’re snowbirds, it’s still going to be really hot for a short nosed breed. I agree with looking at shelters, because even if you want a specific breed, with sites like petfinder, you can find almost any breed, and lots of purebreds, or mixed with the breeds you want there. People dump expensive purebreds also.

I would stay away from any of the brachiocephalic dogs just because of the climate change. They really just don’t appreciate the heat.

My parents have a toy poodle and she is wonderful. Smart , steady and loves to travel. Also good with all the grand kids. She even rides a boogie board around the pool while everyone swims.