Lots of different and good talking points on the thread.
Just wanted to jump into the pit convo first:
I love pits, I think they are usually WONDERFUL companion dogs, no matter what their breeding. So many of them come from absolutely horrific backgrounds and always maintain a lovely attitude or are successfully rehabilitated to have a great attitude.
@ Chancellor2: I can see why you felt some of the comments might have been a tad harsh, but I do think your glasses might be a bit rosy.
Firstly: In most areas I’ve lived, bad pit owners definitely outweigh the good ones (who I give all the credit in the world). To clarify, I’m using pit here to include all pit-esque types and crosses, though I realize there are also good breeders who are breeding for a specific type and purpose. If you took a nationwide look at pits and owners in general, I think you would find that stereotype does hold true. Unfortunately, pits are the current tough guy dog, so they are overbred and often owned by irresponsible types. In addition, many people get “over-horsed” with a pit type and don’t understand the responsibilities that come with ownership of that type of dog - this also makes for less than “good” owners, despite good intentions.
Let’s be honest, MOST dog owners (of all breeds) are not what I would consider “good” or “knowledgeable,” and MOST breeders are far too ignorant to be breeding - again, despite some of them having the best of intentions. I think those of us that frequent COTH and/or competition dog sports sometimes get spoiled by the level of knowledge around us.
Secondly: Pits do come from stock that was bred for dog aggression and fighting qualities, even if responsible breeders are no longer breeding for those traits specifically. That’s just the way it is. Many of them are not that way and/or can be trained to be wonderful around other dogs. However, just like most sighthounds love to chase quick things that come across their line of vision, scent hounds love to track a delicious smell, and terriers tend to be tough critters with a high prey drive, many pit types do have higher levels of dog aggression (they’re not the only breed, either).
In summary, because pit breeders and owners today are often of the irresponsible sort, it makes sense that ‘good’ pit owners often avoid dog parks (same with all breeds with a reputation). And, no matter how much you love pits, they do come from lines that were selected for a certain amount of dog aggression, so it’s good to keep that in mind. It’s always good to remember any breed’s lineage. For example, I always keep in mind my greyhound’s breeding to keep her safe - there are some things I wouldn’t think twice about allowing another breed to do that I wouldn’t let her do (that 1% chance is not a risk I’m willing to take).
***But yeah, to the original point of the thread, dog parks are something that can be great but it’s rare you get the perfect storm of variables = ) My girl doesn’t enjoy them at all and is relatively intolerant of rude dogs, so we do greyhound playdates instead (she’s a bit of a breed snob…)