We don’t go to dog parks…one of my dogs is young, timid, submissive and the other one is elderly and can be aggressive. Not the place for them. I’m not sure they are the place for any dog, given that there’s no assurance that other’s showing up have a clue.
Our dogs get their play time in with dogs we know…those of friends, neighbors and relatives. The old dog has few friends (her choice), but the young dog has lots and every play experience is positive for her because we only play with well-known dogs with good dog manners and good bite inhibition. Not that they won’t discipline her when necessary, but discipline is a growl or a “no real damage intended” soft bite or shove onto her back, not an attack. They can play very rough and tumble without anyone losing their temper or ever biting “for real”. Young dog has very good doggie manners herself from this experience…she “asks” to play rather than charging up to a new dog. If a new dog doesn’t respond positively to her play bow from a distance, she moves on. If a strange dog charges up to her without first making a play gesture, she hides behind me until we figure out what dog’s intentions are.