Thank you all so much for all of the suggestions, thus far! We are the outdoorsy type, who really enjoy hiking, natural scenery, and wildlife, which is why we want to be more rural (without being totally removed). We used to live in Colorado, which we loved, but there was no horse scene in the areas where we would enjoy living. I really do not like desert, lack of trees or forest, or wide open plains, which is why I know certain parts of the west coast will not be ideal. However, it seems like there is plenty for sale in our budget in the greener areas around national forests and such, and it’s pretty easy to see on the maps where those areas are. The issue being, I have no idea if those areas are TOO remote, or if there is a nearby dressage scene at all, or even a horse scene. In my past experience with Colorado, similar areas tend to have no horse community and be too far removed from groceries, hospitals and the like. In an ideal world, we would be able to afford enough land to keep our horses at home but I’m looking at both options, currently. Unless the house came with a barn, it would be a project to add later. With low housing inventory, I don’t think finding a house with horse facilities is too realistic. Vermont would be my #1 choice if it wasn’t so cold.
No, we are not rich and while we can sell our current house for good money, we will not be looking at million dollar+ homes (I’d actually prefer a smaller, simpler home!), nor will we be affording 2k in board every month. I know that rules out a lot of areas for us, especially in parts of California. I only go to a few shows a year, so more important is consistent access to a choice of trainers and clinic options, without having to haul 2+ hours each direction. Exceptions a couple of times a year aside. Same with veterinary care/farrier access.
Obviously we’ll have to compromise in certain departments, so I am not looking for that elusive perfect match. I just want to gather information so we can make the best decision. Narrowing it down to counties is always really helpful for me, so I can wrap my head around chunks of area. I really appreciate the amount of information and detail everyone is supplying. It’s perfect!