Hi All!
I have a 6 year old gelding, who’s the sweetest boy ever! We started clipping when he was 4 and he’s been amazing. I’ve worked slowly and holistically as ground manners are super important to me and so is my horse’s mental wellbeing.
He’s been a saint about it, with the ears taking the most patience, but definitely lets me clip them once he realizes I’m not doing anything scary. Once started, he actually enjoys having his ears done and thinks it feels good. I do not believe in twitching or using chains under the gums, etc. Especially due to his kind demeanor. The horse is a pleaser and the sweetest horse I’ve ever met, so doing right by him is so important to me.
Recently, about 4 months ago, my trainer saw I was taking my time with him and came in to “speed things up”. She said, “Let me help you” and began to twist his lip without my permission. He immediately freaked out and slammed himself into the corner of the stall. We were almost done clipping, so I nicely replied that I was actually done and she shrugged her shoulders and moved on.
Since then, I can’t go near his ears with clippers, sometimes even his face causes him distress. I’ve tried taking our time and desensitizing him to the sound, talking to him, rubbing his ears with the clippers near by, but as soon as they touch him he pulls back and makes himself unreachable. I’m just so bummed. I put so much time into making him good with the clippers. Everyone always raved about what a perfect baby he was with everything.
Long story short, I don’t know how to fix this, I’ve tried multiple times and I refuse to get frustrated or mad at him. It’s not his fault. What’s everyone’s tricks? Anyone have to work backwards like this and had success? He’s a big boy so gets out of reach even with a stool if he’s not on board with the idea.
I know what many will say about my trainer and I need to find a new one. This is a whole other issue and I’m very aware of any concerns in this area and I’m working on them. For now, please give me advice and tricks to get him back to his happy to be clipped self.