I’ve always been bendy, but it’s gotten to be more of a problem as I’ve gotten older. I was just diagnosed with hEDS. Thankfully I don’t dislocate, just sublux, and I have a lot of the associated issues (gastroparesis, dysautonomia, etc). The things that bothers me the more is how it affects how I can work with my horses.
I can’t ride anymore. I don’t have a safe riding horse and don’t have access to lessons. I’m also having a really hard time eating enough to not keep loosing weight. I also can’t tolerate heat much at all and can work with my horses from the ground either. Cold also takes a lot out of me.
I manage feeding fine and have to do their hoof care. Yes I spend 2 days in bed after but it’s better than paying someone to make them lame, which is what has unfortunately happened with all the local farriers.
Grooming however really kicks my butt. It hurts my hands and shoulders which all sublux a lot. It also get my heart rate going way too fast. I’d rather not pass out while grooming. I am working on ring splints but it’s proving very challenging. I have no idea how to support my shoulders, especially since I’m allergic to a lot of braces I’ve tried.
I have a plastic flower curry comb and a furminator which my ponies all like but are hard on my hands.
I’m still working on the doctor angle of things. The actual horse care thing is when I’m having problems with. Especially since my ancient pony loves grooming but it’s just killing my hands and shoulders too much. Circular motion or straight, equally bad. I wish I had a grooming robot so at least all my ponies could be groomed well. Right next my dad does most of the grooming but he’s afraid of horses and isn’t comfortable doing bellies and legs.
I know it might be going out on a limb hoping someone else has EDS, but I thought it’d be worth asking.
Any ideas or suggestions?