This goes for everyone wanting to be a real POS during this time -
Yes, COVID sucks. We’re all aware of it because we’re all living it. No one is dismissing that. My best and only friend in this world is a NICU nurse on rotation to the ICU. I’m aware. I’m close. I see it. I got it.
But for any one of you to dismiss the disappointment of someone who can’t go to prom. Who can’t compete in finals. Who won’t walk the stage to receive their diploma. Who can’t go play with their friends for the 4th week in a row. Whose plans to be baptized got dashed.
… is absolute and utter BS. How dare you? Those pains are real, and you don’t get to decide that they don’t mean anything because your priorities and life experiences are different, and because you think this issue trumps all other heartbreak. Did you speak in the same way when we were neck deep in Iraq and Afghanistan? “Your problems don’t matter because of [insert any horrible event going on around the world], you’re just a whiner.”
Every single poster who has made a statement like that on these boards has been forever clouded in my mind. It’s such a selfish, self centered thing to dismiss someone’s heartbreak because yours/ours is deeper. There will ALWAYS be something worse than what you’re [g] experiencing. Your heartbreak over something, anything is not negated because there are children suffering in 3rd world countries. Of course, if one were to put everything on a single scale, there’s going to be a difference. But it’s all relative, and also relative to one’s life experiences. No one person’s heartbreak and disappointment is less valid than another’s.
Next time someone’s loved one or their horse dies, they should just shut up because someone’s whole entire family just got blown to smithereens in Syria… right? No.
So, “who gives a fock?” I give a fock.
OP, I’m sorry for the situation you’re in. While it certainly isn’t life-threatening, I understand that working really hard towards one goal, and then getting that goal abruptly removed from your grasp must really suck. I hope they can find a solution that can resolve the disappointment the unexpected shutdown inadvertently caused. Otherwise, I’m sorry for the opportunity lost, and hope it doesn’t discourage you or your kid from riding. It isn’t a fair situation to anyone, that’s for sure.