I have a 21 year old TB gelding who my parents and I purchased ten years ago as an event prospect. He had evented up to Intermediate but struggled at the upper levels (slow, spooky in the jumping phases). I was successful with him up to Novice, but struggled at Training level with refusals and bolting in open fields. We transitioned to dressage as a result, competing successfully up to PSG.
I’m now finishing grad school, and no longer feeling satisfied by pure dressage. My passion is eventing, and which is why I purchased him in the first place. This past year we’ve done lower level stuff at home, working on the basics. But I have a strong desire to event.
A second horse is not financially feasible, even with my second job (currently work about 55 hours a week). Working anymore would not allow for riding time. My current horse lives outdoors on affordable “pasture board”. He is NOT safe for a beginner (serious bolter and spooker), and HATES happy-hacking. He is so quirky that I have not been able to lease him out. I don’t have anyone who would be willing to take him on as a companion horse. I’m definitely not ready to euthanize him as he is so full of life and sound, but trucking around the ring no longer sparks joy for me.
Do I try to send him for re-training to try and event again? I’m committed to this horse and want him to enjoy his retirement, and I don’t think he would enjoy eventing again. On the other hand, I want to be able to enjoy riding and doing what I want to do. I could realistically be paying for his retirement for another decade. How long do I put my goals on hold for?
Thanks for “listening”!