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sisu27 - I agree whole heartedly.
This seems to be the obstacle to overcome. It is not the girl’s fault she is not educated - how does she know what she needs to be educated on? The parents - they aren’t horsey, how do they know what their child needs to be educated on?
The coach should have ensured the child received the education she needed, whether or not the child’s parents elected to put her in Pony Club or something.
I say elected because Pony Club is expensive. The coach should have discussed it with the parents in terms of the educational benefit, but if the parents decided it was to much, the coach needs to make sure there are no holes in the child’s education.
The barn where I rode in high school - there was no Pony Club or 4H. Older students volunteered to help kids get ready, which included showing how to pick out feet and properly tack up horses. If the older students did not own horses, they could usually work on getting riding time. If they did own horses, they usually did this anyway because they were there and it is what their friends were doing.
I only mention this to show that it does not require some club to have proper horsemanship - but you have to be aware of your students’ limitations. That may be land, money, trailering, etc. Just be aware of it and find ways to get the child the proper education anyway. This seems to be the biggest obstacle in eventing - a lot of people are having trouble coming to grips with the fact that this needs to be done.[/QUOTE]
Yes, I agree with all you have said. The problem is they have no concept whatsoever as to how many essential pieces of the puzzle they are short. If you aren’t aware that you are missing something why would you seek it out? The coach sees the kid for one hour lesson a week and then meets them at the show in the morning. She doesn’t seem to notice how much they don’t know. This is why I believe there needs to be some sort of system that quantifys (sp?) your requirements. For those of us that have put in the time and had the thirst to learn anything and everything about our sport it will be a no-brainer to prove why we belong in the sport. BUT…for those that haven’t they will need to gain some education if they want to participate. It equates to treating us all like children but I think we have not proven that we possess the good judgement to make these decisions on our own. If it saves one horses life I think it is worthwhile.
You know what is also sad about the whole thing? This kid has no idea about the satisfaction one gets from TRAINING to go eventing. The process in itself is so rewarding. Just the other day I took my greenie to a Hunter Pace/Hunter Trials at the Hunt Club for some mileage and for the first time I felt him locking on and taking me to fences with ears pricked forward and not an ounce of hesitation. We didn’t win a thing all day but I can’t remember the last time I was happier. These little victories escape this generation of eventers that don’t train, don’t condition, don’t become obsessive about feeding and supplements… I guess if they stay at the lower levels it won’t matter but I see some with good financial backing that will just buy all that anyways when the time comes. But you can’t really buy that can you? It just makes me sad and I wish I was in a position to really do something about it.