Ever wanted you first horse to come back?

The first horse we got for children was a long yearling purchased in 1990. Horse was wonderful, did everything but what she was purchased for, taught us to be flexible in what we wanted.

Foxie horse as a long yearling

we had her until she peacefully passed away in 2016

She was a wonderful horse for kids, they showed her across the country. We kept her here at home.

Really never thought she could be replaced, so went on with life.

After the sudden loss of a three old my daughter was given a five year old mare who was just setting used in a pasture because the trainer/owner just did not have the extra time to devote to his stock.

So we got Lexie

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never really thought much about her resemblance to Foxie until after Lexie won a championship a trainer that knew Foxie asked daughter if Lexie was a Foxie foal.

Foxie stood 14.1+ while Lexie is 14h even

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I wish my first horse would come back so I could spend the rest of my life (and her life) making up for all the dumb kid things I did –

  • – I fed her clover hay because it had flowers in it that I thought were pretty.
  • –I fed her ear corn because I liked corn on the cob
  • –I only had her shoes done when she wore out her old shoes because that’s when I got new shoes!
  • –I used an old bedspread as a saddle pad because that was all I had
  • –I don’t think I ever had her wormed or vaccinated (1965 or so) --not sure how/when worming or vaccinating became something one did --may have been after I got my second horse in 1976
  • –Rode her onto an ice covered pond, we fell through and both nearly drowned (January)
    And yet she was a saint. She carried me all over the county on back roads with my friend and her pony. We never thought twice about where we were going or how long it would take us to get there.

In hindsight, my ma should have known better than to just hand a horse to a twelve year old kid and expect she’d have any idea of how to care for it. But ma was starting her own newspaper then --writing news stories, getting advertisers, and doing everything to make it a go. Still, ma knew something about horse --hard to believe she never noticed what an ignorant owner I was.

I did keep Ginger fed twice a day, she always had water and hay --even if it was clover. I cleaned out a neighbor’s old stone building so she would have shelter, and at 12, I put up a fence using an old mallet and T posts --one at a time --then strung barbed wire (I don’t think electric fence was common back then where I lived.

Ginger died my sophomore year of college --I’d taken her with me and kept her at the college stable in return for giving lessons to beginner riders.

Ever since then, I’ve tried to give each of my horses the care Ginger should have had. I’ve had 17 horses since then.

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Probably could do without my very first horse because it was exactly the sort of scruffy, ornery, ill tempered hony you can envision buying for $235.

But the flashy Paint gelding I had for more than a dozen years? Yes. I want him back every day. I love my current mare. She’s the kind of horse I’ve always dreamed of owning. But that gelding, nicknamed Wally? I had glorious adventures on that macho dude. He was my soul mate. And when I reach the end of my days, that’s the horse I’m riding into eternity.

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Well this is a little different story but one of my first horses did come back to me. I sold her and she unfortunately passed through several hands (every time she hit the market I missed buying her back through fate, I tried) ending up starved and waiting for the meat truck to pick her up on a Tuesday. I found this out through the rumor mill in town on Easter morning, ran to the bank Monday did the deal (praying the entire time the owner wouldn’t insist on shipping her, she was vindictive and nuts) and walked her home that afternoon. She missed the truck by 18 hours. Best little mare I ever had and I am so sorry that she ended up in such a bad place. A little 14 hand grade Morgan.

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We have two rescued Morgans here that are living out their life. Neither is rideable, both are kept together. Their cost to keep is about ten times that of keeping the two show Morgans (who have accumulated an impressive show record)

These two rescued needed a safe place even though one was in a safe place in the hands of the Morgan Safenet that already had her in their hands for seven years, this mare just needed a home. The other is a nice buckskin Morgan who evidently had to endure some very harsh cowboy training that imprinted fear into his mind. These two are nearly inseparable as they support each other.

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I had a similar story. When I was 14, I trained a 3 year old pony and had him until he was 12 and sold him to a kid I continued teaching lessons to on him. A few years later, he lost interest and the pony was sold and I lost track of him. When the pony was 19, someone called my father to ask for my phone number because they thought they saw him online at a horse rescue. They never called me. This would have been 2000 so internet searching wasn’t what it is today, but I did actually find him at a rescue about 1.5 hours away. I went to see him, called him like I always did and got a huge nicker in return.

Apparently he had gotten bad laminitis and the single mother who had him couldn’t handle it and turned him over to the rescue. They said it was really bad and they almost put him down but he “had that look in his eyes” and they gave him more time. He was mostly recovered when I found him. I was pregnant, and would be out of state for several months but I told him I’d be glad to have him back. They said they’d hold him for me until I got back.

He recovered fully and became my son’s first pony. In his late 20s, he made it clear that jumping even small jumps was off the table but he still loved mounted games and trail rides. At 30, I had the vet check him before letting my son take him to the Pony Club games rally for the last time. He lived to 33.

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What a nice (and lucky!) pony. I have such a soft spot for ponies, especially the older ones.
They never forget who loves them do they? My mare recognized me the day I went to see her. She was a rack of bones but when she saw me she lit up. I walked her home, it wasn’t that far and as soon as we turned the corner and headed up our road, her head came up, her step got lively and she started pulling me towards home. Buy the time we got to the driveway we were jogging.
She was with me about 2-3 years, I was able to ride her again and we had a great time together until she passed from what the vet thought was an aneurism. It was very sudden. That was 30 years ago and I still think of her daily.

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There is a horse I would want to come back, although she wasn’t my first. I owned her for most of her life and she had a lot of potential, but was an absolute raging bitch except when she was in foal.

That was long before the days of Regumate. If she reappeared on my doorstep today, I would put her on Regumate and if that didn’t work, might even consider having her spayed, and I would have a very fancy large pony with a delightful rocking chair canter.

I wish I could have a do-over with my Old Man. Best horse ever, no questions asked.

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Same. I lost my heart horse nearly 3 years ago and my heart still aches. He saw me through high school college, young adulthood, marriage, and a baby. I wish I could be the person and rider that I am now for him, so he wouldn’t have to go though the growing pains of making me the better person and better rider.

Anddddd now I’m ugly crying at work.

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I wish I could have bought my one and last lease horse. A wonderful TB that was 18 years old when I first started to lease him. He taught me a lot in 2 years. I was only boarding at the time and did not have a place that I could retire him to. His owners sold him to some kids that just wanted to do some schooling shows with him. I lost track of him, but I’m sure he’s long gone by now (this was 25 years ago now).

I now have a farm (23 years now) and I could have retired him until his end but the stars did not align…I think of him often.

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I think we all feel that way about our first horse. But hindsight is 20/20

That is why saint first horses were given to us. God bless them.

Aside from cringing at some of the kid things I did with my first, I’d love to have my Appaloosa back for a do-over with what I know now.

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I too have a similar story - when I outgrew my first horse’s abilities we sold him within our circle and he went on to teach and adult ammy. She eventually moved and gave him back to us, and we leased him to other beginning riders for a couple years, then when I moved away from the farm to start my first job after college, placed him with a friend of a friend as a pasture companion and occasional trail horse.

A couple years later I got a phone call from a rescue that had him - turns out the friend of a friend had given him to one of her boarders, who got into a bad car accident and stopped going to the barn to check on him. He ended up with such a bad case of rain rot the barn manager insisted she give him up, and thus he ended up at the rescue. She surrendered him with all of his paperwork, including the entire folder of vet records and history I had dropped off with him, and the rescue was tracking down some history and had some questions about him. Needless to say, we visited him at the rescue and found the poor guy lame (had torn a ligament in his stifle) and very underweight - and he was an easy keeping Quarter Horse. He walked right up to me and put his head in my chest when I walked out in the pasture. We brought him home a week or two later, and we were able to give him a few years of good retired life before we weren’t able to keep him comfortable anymore and we had to let him go.

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I don’t.
Because I had to wait until I was 39 to buy my first horse.
After a near-lifetime* of Schoolies & shareboards.
*rode from age 8 to 15, then no riding until I was 33. Never owned in all those years.
But my 1st couldn’t have been any better.
Never raced TB, never refused to do anything I asked.
Hunters (EOY Reserve AA our 1st season)
Dressage - schooling 3rd when I stopped being serious about taking lessons
Eventing - showed BNH, schooled to Training
Trails - on the buckle & occasionally bareback, once he stopped viewing them as World’s Longest Post Parade
I had him for 20yrs, lost to a trailering accident at 27.
He set the bar high for those that followed.
I’d have cloned him in a nanosecond if that had been possible.
He’s been gone 15yrs & I miss him to this day
His portrait:

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