Well I won’t be putting my horse down unless there was a huge progression in pain or other lameness complications.
If he has to be retired, well it will suck big time. I had to euthanize two horses in a row- very different situations though. One had trigeminal nerve pain and would drag his head on the ground. This resulted in lots of injuries to his knee and his eye. And his condition deteriorated. My vet said that his facial muscle tone was that of a horse in his 20’s even though he was 5. I tried everything to help him and in the end let him go be free if pain.
Then I had a horse that first we discovered had a club foot, pretty gnarly sidebone, pedal osteitis, arthritis in his spine before he went neurologic and we discovered wobblers. He actually looked quite great and he was sound at the time but I consulted with multiple vets and they determined that there was no way that the future was going to be very kind to him given all that he had going on. Plus he had started to fall. And honestly, because of his feet he needed really costly maintenance just to be pasture sound. I just couldn’t do it.
My horse, I still have hope. Kissing Spine can absolutely be devastating but some people do manage it… I would not blame anybody for euthanizing a horse with kissing spines either. All of our financial situations are different. But for me, after what I’ve been through, I am very very far from considering it. I would like the very least try and give my horse a couple years retirement if he’d stay comfortable. I would never judge anybody else for a different decision!