Hello, Chroners!
I am a spanking-new participating member, though I’ve lurked on these boards for years I’m a 22-year-old hunter/jumping/eventing trainer and instructor out of Kansas City, focusing on children and beginner jumpers, and green horses.
I recently took a new job at a barn here, and have a whole slew of new students. I LOVE them all, and we have generally well-behaved lesson horses, but it’s a very common trend with a lot of my younger riders that no matter how I say it or try to explain it, they just can’t seem to learn to sit up and back.
We have one lesson horse who will yank the reins away to go munch grass whenever her kid leans forward, and another who is just a sensitive Arab that will speed up and forget how to steer when his kids are collapsing forward toward his neck. My kiddos have this problem at every gait, and whether they’re jumping or not.
I’ve tried telling them to stick their chests out, or bellys, or butts. I’ve tried telling them to stretch up as high as they can. I’ve tried telling them to plant their buns in the saddle, and I’ve tried explaining to them that they are way stronger if they are sitting up straight than if they lean forward (I demonstrate this by being the horse’s “mouth” by pulling on the reins and showing them they can pull against me better if they sit tall vs when they lean forward).
No matter what I try, they all struggle, with varying degrees of difficulty, sitting straight and tall and not collapsing forward. I know some of it is just they need to build up their core balance and strength, but I’m looking for new exercises of ways to help them develop the “feel” of proper posture so they can tell when they’ve got it right.
Does anyone have any suggestions? How did you first learn how to sit tall and deep? I’m very much a safety first instructor when it comes to my kids, and I’m hesitant for any of them to be jumping (though they have been with their previous trainer who I think pushed them prematurely) until they learn to sit back and ride strong but a little defensively to their jumps. I’ve already seen too many of them slide over a horse’s shoulder who puts on the breaks before a jump, and I don’t even want to think of that happening out on cross country…
Thanks in advance!
-CR