3 years ago I bought a foal and the breeder was just fabulous to work with. She was very informative and we were in contact before and after the foal was born. She sent me frequent updates as my filly was growing (typically weekly) including pictures and videos. I didn’t live close so I wasn’t able to visit so these updates were all I had till I could pick the filly up. To this day, I still send the breeder updates on the progress of my filly.
Well this year, I bought another foal (different breeder) but also not local. It has been a very different experience. When I first contacted the breeder, they were great. Very helpful and informative. We had several long informative discussions prior to me buying the foal (in utero which was a first for me). After the foal was born, the breeder kinda dropped off away. I only get updates if I ask for them and even then, they ask like its a huge inconvenience. Now, I’m not expecting high caliber pictures or videos. A quick snap on a cell phone is fine. I’ve gotten maybe 3 pictures since May.
I very much understand that breeders are busy people. They have mares to get rebred, stallions to collect, mares to foal out and these guys have horses in training and lessons to do as well.
It has just been such a vastly different experience than the first time. I’m just a little disappointed as these are the only pictures/videos etc I will have of this baby since I’m not nearby.
I don’t necessarily think it’s wrong (frustrating but not wrong) but was wondering what other’s experiences have been?