I have an absolutely wonderful gelding who has one recurrent issue of being extremely ear shy. And it is so inconsistent of an issue that it makes me wonder if it doesn’t have a physical component. Let me explain, and then I’d love to hear from others if you’ve ever been around a horse like this, and what helped (if you were able to help/fix it).
I’ve owned this boy for a year and a half. I’ve had horses before that came to me as headshy, but admittedly never this bad. I successfully resolved it in the other horses, but I can’t seem to completely be rid of it with this one. What strikes me is that we have days; sometimes weeks on end where he’s perfectly fine with whatever I’m doing around his head (haltering, bridling, brushing). And then out of seemingly nowhere, the next time I interact with him it’s like a switch flipped in him and he does everything in his power to keep my hands more than a foot away from his ears (he doesn’t even want me to pet his face; something he can’t get enough of on the good days).
I don’t have suspicions of anyone abusing him; he’s kept at home and I’m practically the only person who handles him (mostly because of this issue and how it comes out of nowhere).
I brought this up to my vet last Fall. Of course, my gelding was having a normal/good day about his ears (isn’t that always the way?), so vet was able to play with his ears after only a couple minutes of “getting to know you.” So vet sincerely believed it’s behavioral. Since gelding was intact until 4 (he’s 8 this year), vet theorized maybe he was tough to handle as a stud and was twitched. But he came around so quick for the vet that he didn’t feel there was anything physical, so never examined his ears or surrounding structures.
I took that to heart, and have continued to work with/around this issue; I also have actual sessions with him from time to time focusing on this; relaxing and accepting touches and hand movement up there (in case that’s a trigger). But still, we continue to have random bad days that are always extremely bad.
Is that normal? Has anyone experienced that with a head shy/ear shy horse? What has helped if you’ve ever worked through this before?