I have Parlanti’s, and while they are beautiful boots, they are definitely not made to last. I also have DeNiros which are close to 7 years old now, and while I haven’t worn them lately, they were my daily boots for ~5 years including a working student stint in which I rode 5+ horses a day and bathed and did chores in them and they still polish up to look like new.
Another option to look at is the Tucci boots, if you buy them from Europe (same with the Parlanti and DeNiro, SO much cheaper to order from Europe). I have a few friends that have the Marilyn model and they are both beautiful and look quite durable.
I know they have a crappy reputation here, but Just Riding is where I ordered my Parlantis and I know lots of other people who have ordered from them and they have always been really great for everyone I know. I got my boots on one of their “special orders that didn’t get picked up” sale, and I got my Miami boots for $380 CAD shipped, and they shipped the day after I ordered (on a Wednesday) and arrived in Canada by the Monday.