Our barn recently had a new, VERY sweet kitty dropped off. She developed an ear infection - was shaking her head, walking funny, etc, so I took her to the vet because an ear infection can be treated, but if it was neurological, etc - just wanted her to be okay and/or not spread something to the other barn cats. Well, long story short, yes, it is an ear infection, BUT she tested positive for FIV.
I did a lot of research, and we are not euthanizing her. I will take her to our small business property and let our caretaker tend to her. I have other cats at home, but in my research, apparently FIV isn’t nearly the big deal that leukemia is. First, the FIV+ cat can live a normal life, no issues, and secondly, much less communicable than leukemia - must be blood exchanged or sexual contact. This cat is already spayed and completely non-violent, but my other cats might attack her, so I’m not comfortable integrating her into my existing cat family at home. Plus, I’d be borderline the cat-hoarder at that point! HA!
My vet did NOT say I had to put her to sleep, but did note a lot of people do due to the risk. But a friend said her sister, who is a vet, has an FIV cat in her home with other non-FIV cats, and no issues with any of them. Just wanted to learn if others had opinions/experience with FIV+ cats. I am glad I didn’t just say “put her down” without doing some research, and I’m very happy DH is so wonderful about cats and we have a totally safe, viable option for this one.