Long time lurker, first time poster here. Just wanted to get perspectives from other folks and maybe vent a little bit. To make a long story short, I had a whirlwind first horse experience last year. Went from lesson horses to a lease and then was convinced by my trainers at the time to buy a green horse that was wrong for me in all sorts of ways all within a year. Lots of falling off, feeling clueless, just plain not having fun at the barn anymore and finally made the decision to leave when it became clear that my trainers didn’t really seem to care or have any experience working with young horses. They made their money from me and that was that. They are currently trying to do it again to other friends who have reached out after I left.
Currently in the process of getting the horse restarted with an actual professional and not just amateurs running a backyard lesson program and will be finding a new situation for said horse over the next few months. So, I’ll be back to being horseless again. In my area it feels like in order to actually participate in the horse community you have to own OR you can join one of the few lesson programs which unfortunately for me did not have their students best interest in mind. Now I know better, but where do I go from here? It’s hard to go from being at the barn multiple days per week back to being a lesson kid. But I’m also spooked by the horse world now. I really don’t want to go through this whole thing again and don’t feel like I’m in a place financially to buy again due to training costs and the loss from buying this horse. Any tips for not getting fleeced next time? Or if anyone else has backed off from their levels of commitment to the horse world and managed to find their place?