It depends on how comfortable you are with the whole foaling process AND how capable you are to fix things should they go wrong.
The vet is probably “laid back” because the vast majority of foalings go just fine without human intervention. Maidens or otherwise, usually mares do just “spit them right out”.
But when it goes bad it often goes REALLY bad and you need to decide if you think you can handle it.
I’ve been lucky – my mares have only had 2 dystocias, but both were serious and resulted in losing the foals.
In one case, the foal presented breech. That is NOT a situation that one person can handle. Even the vet struggled and the foal died shortly after birth.
In the other case, the mare was mine, but out on lease (in CA). The leasee had never foaled a mare out and so decided to send the mare to the vet’s, who specialized in repro, was young, strong, etc.
Well, luckily that mare was very predictable and the lady hauled her to the vet 2-3 days before she went into labor. THAT foal presented both legs back. HORRID positioning. Despite working for over an hour, this young, strong vet AND her young strong male assistant were only able to get 1 leg forward.
They lost the foal and thank goodness the mare was at the vet’s because otherwise we would have lost her as well.
In both these cases if I had had to handle the situation alone here, it would have been ugly.
However I have to say, that none of my maidens have ever had an issue and most of the time all I have to do is stand and watch till the foal is born.
Just depends on how close is your vet? Can you trouble shoot the labor early enough to get them out PDQ? Are you prepared to spend hours watching the mare when it seems nothing is happening? Because you WILL spend hours doing that :winkgrin:…especially w/maidens.
And when things go wrong, you need to be right on top of them AS THEY HAPPEN, so it can be very inconvenient if you have a family, kids, a job, etc.
I had to call in sick afew times (now I’m retired) when I thought a mare was going to pop…sometimes they did foal…other times they did not.
And don’t stop reading about dystocias just because they make you uncomfortable. That is not going to be helpful to your mare at all…
I don’t want to sound like Ms. Doom & Gloom, because statistically mares don’t have big issues giving birth. But there is a risk, and it’s only fair to the mare to be prepared to help her if needed.
If you don’t feel capable, DO send her to the vet.