I think we’ve overlooked here who the REAL victim is going to be… the poor kid riding the horse. Chances are she’s unaware of all the drama, probably doesn’t REALLY realize she’s riding so poorly and/or isn’t given the instruction on how to fix it. If this poor kid is in love with the saint of a horse and he gets yanked from her in any way, I’ll be she’s going to be heartbroken… all becasue the adults in her life are a$$hats.
I’m past thinking that the seller is being victimized… she’s allowing herself to be taken advantage of and to be honest, I think that if she got her selling price (or anywhere near it), she’s going to forget she was an idiot and will likely make these mistakes again.
I don’t think that Trainer(s) or Buyer are ethical either–they are manipulative jerks. If they get to buy the horse for less than selling price, then they win and will likely go and make these types of shady “deals” again.
The only way I can see this situation teaching both the trainer/buyers and the seller a lesson is that if a 3rd party gets the horse for pretty cheap.
Then again, then the kid is screwed and will likely have to go through this (or similar) drama–again… :sigh::no: