[QUOTE=Dressage4Fun;2929454]
It really is sad that these people have taken the time and effort to scam this young lady. She is in a tight spot… most of us have been there. She can’t afford to take him back, she has the “money” spent, and they are going to try to lowball her. AND she has no back up buyer, that is what burns most of us I think, and I think that is what keeps most of us glued here. I just wish there was someone that needed this guy, and where the trainer (that I am SURE is reading this ) tries to lowball her, walks in and offers full price… with full intention of following through. THAT would be justice.[/QUOTE]
Yes!
I completely relate to the horse owner, in the way of being similar in age, and being dirt poor. My pony is a “lifer”, so selling was out of the question, so I leased her out. She is in the absolute perfect home, with people who are probably giving her a better life than I would have, even if I had the money to do so. BUT, if god forbid anything happened, and I needed to take her back? I have back up plans to do so. My mother in law could pasture her. Granted, certainly not ideal, crappy fence, little/no care - but it’s somewhere she could go until I figured something out (and if it wasn’t my MIL’s pasture, it would be someone else’s). No, I can’t afford her (well, not her AND the children, anyhow ;)), but I have back up plans in case things fall through (although, I highly doubt they will). If I was selling her, I’d still have those back up plans in place. So, while at first I felt bad for her, the more I think about it, the more I feel it’s just bad planning on the seller’s part, and being too desperate for that money. I need the money (or at least need to be not spending it on board) just as much as she does (and have school loans and medical bills that could be paid off!). But I made sure to put myself in a situation where I would never be so desperate as to get myself into a bind like this.
I’m still hoping that something gets worked out behind the scenes to really stick it to these trainers. I get more and more pissed with them as the hours go on (since I’m following this so closely, I can’t measure it in days anymore… :no:). Of course, that’s just wishful thinking from the poor mother in NY. LOL