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As noted above I had an interest in a stallion currently at our barn. Know him well, and owner and I have made a deal. He is coming 14, I will not geld him and will hope for the best as he ages.
Oh so much fun to ride, Lusitano, extensive dressage training.[/QUOTE]
From what I’ve heard, they are a blast to ride. The one’s that aren’t gelded “don’t need to be”, from what I’ve been told, for the same reasons you are experiencing. They tend to be fairly docile, even around mares in heat. I probably wouldn’t go throwing him out in a herd of geldings sharing a fence-line with mares, but it doesn’t sound like you are hoping to.
In all honesty, the worst horses I’ve had to deal with have been rank geldings that are “hormone sensitive” despite being gelded early (we have one at the clinic used as a teaser because mares will “respond” to him when they are in heat despite him lacking the proper equipment).
I think any barn capable of handling a stallion (facility wise) will be more likely to be able to handle a stallion (experience wise). I would just get myself a heavy leather halter and a 20" brass stud chain, in case he does need it.
You might even be capable of leasing him for a month and seeing what he is like at shows, if that puts your mind more at east.
I will say, at 14, if he is easy going and easy to handle, he probably won’t change. I would be mindful of workload though, if he doesn’t work enough he may become more “frustrated” otherwise.
Good luck in your endeavor with your new horse!