I’m not even sure how to put this, but: Does anyone have any experience with training/retraining a horse out of a 90% draw rein background?
I have an 8 year old 17.3h loooong-backed mare with a lot of flexibility (the hind end and neck swing very easily in either direction) and a selective attention span. She came to me from a trainer with an iron leg/hand who trained her flatwork primarily in draw reins set through the sides of the girth.
Getting her active behind, working through her back, and on the bit is usually doable for me with a pelham or gag bit and a spur, but a battle (not with my horse, just in feasibility) in any kind of a snaffle, which is where I would like to be. Her trainer is very much a “step into the ring and pull the head down immediately” kind of guy, so my background of moving forward with light contact to warm up is met with derision from him and confusion (day off mode) from the mare. Unless I’ve got her pulled together from the get go, the attention span and work ethic kind of go out the door. This is an issue because 1.) I hate riding that way, and 2.) I couldn’t if I wanted to, because I’m nowhere near as strong as her trainer, and he’s always used force/strength.
She’s not difficult in character, but good at well-timed spooking to avoid working effectively, swinging the butt to avoid using it once tired, and she gets heavy/dull easily. In short, she is huge, long, and weak (more so after 3 weeks time off due to illness). I’d like to hit reset.
What can I do? She drops muscle quickly and it really shows after her time off.
Do I throw away the draw reins and work her in a leverage bit with the goal of gradually working toward something less?
Use draw reins sparingly?
Lunge once a week in a de gogue (to trade a gadget for a gadget… although this + the pessoa were a large part of her training as well) and work to establish contact more naturally when I ride?
I am lost and not getting much help at my stable, where draw reins are god. I actually hate them and they were never a part of my training. For sure my flatwork can improve, but I honestly feel like I’m not German enough (I’m an expat in Germany) to ride this horse the way she’s used to.