Long story: A few years back I took in a new boarder (NB) with a “green” horse. Unfortunately he wasn’t so much green as horribly spoiled. (coincidentally a client had looked at the same horse before this person bought him, and I saw how horrible his training was then…so it isn’t current owner’s doing). NB made the mistake of keeping the horse at the sellers barn and it didn’t go well (horse developed bad heaves so she couldn’t do more than walk him for 8 MONTHS - that’s another story).
Anyway, we had a good summer with him in 2018, and even got him off property for a hack…he is better outside than in, which is surprising as he had never been ridden outside previously (literally, never). But last summer was too smoky or wet to be outside much. By good I mean we could canter tiny cross poles once and a while, and usually canter without him bucking.
But…NB can only ride once or twice a week…sometimes not at all (partially because of her schedule, but partially because I think she can’t motivate herself to ride outside of lessons). Horse is unpredictable and will bog down at the canter (and can buck), and can’t even walk a pole on the ground inside.
Add to that, her sister has an almost as useless horse they inherited from the grandmother…a horse that they wasted paying for full training for 18 months…but I have no idea what they got for their money…this one at least has some potential to be a solid citizen.
And now the point: NB is a young adult who is realizing she is wasting a LOT of money on a horse that scares her. She is close to embarking on a career and can’t afford to be hurt. He is NOT leaseable, and she does NOT have the money to put him in training.
Honestly, I think his only real “next home” is the rendering plant. How do you tell someone that and help them be ok with it?
A long time ago a trainer helped me “get rid” of an equally dangerous horse by taking him in part trade for one of her homebreds. I had no idea she was taking him to the slaughter plant until years later. In hindsight, it was quite the kindness from someone who didn’t even know me, but was apparently tired of seeing me being on a dangerous equine at shows. (why I was at shows is another topic…what was my own trainer thinking?). I, unfortunately, cannot afford to help in this way.
I am wondering if approaching local “Start up” trainers and offering him for free might be the easiest option? He is a registered warmblood.
And no, I have zero interest in riding him myself. I hardly have enough health/energy to ride my own horses right now…I am not risking myself on this one.