I got a biothane one from Running Bear, and instead of a halter, it has a sidepull for the noseband. It can be a bit bulky, but my OTTB got used to it, and so did I. I couldn’t even tell you if it is noisy. I like it because on quiet days, I can attach the bit to my saddle and use the sidepull, which can be adjusted to taste. That gives me more sensitivity with the reins than a plain halter would. However, the padded noseband does not offer much whoa. That’s why we only use it on quiet days!
I love the thing, though and don’t like to ride him in anything else. Once you get used to it, the adjustability is great, as is the option to just pull the bit off and ride bitless.
I attach the bit to one side, then bit him. It’s an eggbutt, and it was simply a training issue to get him used to it. If there is a problem with the horse accepting a bit, training is usually the best solution. I’ve gotten a few horses through resistance to taking the bit by breaking the bitting process down into eeny weeny steps and figuring out exactly what was bothering the horse. I do this where the horse feels safe and cannot get away but also doesn’t have to be restrained too much–such as a stall. Then work on getting the horse to that point just before he usually gets upset without causing anxiety before moving to the crux of the problem. It can be slow, but it works. Sometimes the memory of painful teeth is enough to cause a horse to strenuously evade being bitted, even if the teeth are not currently a problem. Sometimes others have banged the horse’s mouth badly while bitting, with the same result.
Also, for training a horse to accept a bit easily, I use one that I’m sure will not cause much pain if the horse swings his head around or rears in evasion. I can’t tell you how much time I’ve spent with a bit held up to a horse’s lips while the horse swings his head around or rears. I don’t want points smacking him in the face! Eggbutts or loose-ring snaffles (as long as they can’t pinch) are good for this part of the process. Full-cheek snaffles are terrible for training to bit. Don’t forget to reward the horse when he tries to please you!
Good luck with your horse. I hope you find an option/solution that works for you and your horse!