[QUOTE=Flash44;8206570]
Oh clanter, I usually like what you post, but puhleeze get that “does she need it” comment out - it kind of comes across as indicating women, no matter what their achievements or success, should aspire to hook a rich man…
The achievement I’m most proud of is independence. Come hell or high water, I can take care of myself and do not need a man for money or advice.[/QUOTE]
Independence is a fine goal.
People whose body is their stock in trade (models and athletes particularly) have limited “shelf lives.” If they make it in those professions they have to make what they can as they can and be wise in how they spend it. If not they end up like large numbers of NFL players, in bankruptcy within a couple of years of their retirement.
Some do quite well afterwards, in fact, but folks like Peyton Manning, Heidi Klum, Shaq, Cindy Crawford, etc. are the exceptions to the general rule.
Many of us don’t “need” the advice or input of the opposite sex on some issues but that doesn’t mean that such input is not often enormously helpful. Stepping outside your normal “comfort zone” and looking back on yourself can be a painful experience but one that must from time to time be lived. Or you end up with a highly self centered, closed minded view of the Universe.
G.