So – add to that, a mentor who is truly a trail-riding mentor, not a race-brained hardcore who is excited about taking more horses over the trail, but completely oblivious to the needs and safety of absolute newbies, both riders and horses.
I saw a potential disaster ride with a ‘mentor leader’ who was leaving the newbies behind at obstacles where they were struggling. Completely blind that most of her group was becoming spread out behind her, because they had little idea how to keep their horse on the designated trail, and what to do at points with small navigation issues that were new to them. Yes, some of the horses were becoming anxious, and this lady was oblivious.
All the while she was talking on and on about how great her horse was on so many grand long competitive rides. And how race-brained her horse was. (So why select this one to lead a newbs’ first ride??) She explained what race-brained meant. My thinking, based on observation: She was way more race-brained than her horse!
I posted elsewhere in a trail ride discussion about my long experience with the considerable danger of any human member of a trail ride group who doesn’t understand that, by necessity, the slowest and clumsiest sets the pace and tone of the ride. Sometimes veteran riders are the worst, because they have forgotten what ‘newb’ is.
Especially as someone new to trail/endurance riding, a first-timer on early rides, one has to be cautious about who is on the ride, as well as the trail itself. Horses can be weird on trails, they need a lot of supportive riding. Veteran rider promises to ‘go easy’ and keep the group together are not always kept. Problems can escalate quickly.