Hello everyone! I recently started riding again after a full 5 years off, and it has sadly been a struggle. Unfortunately with recently graduating, and a new job I don’t have time to get to the barn every day. Right now I am lucky to get a lesson every week since the trainer I am using has a schedule that doesn’t match up with mine (other students who take more regular lessons). This is okay because I don’t have many more options of quality trainers without a 1hr++ commute after work, and of course, I am a big believer in quality over quantity. Other than the lessons I can get the barn to hack about one to two additional times per week.
Unfortunately, the horse I am riding is a true kick ride on the flat. Spurs, crop, lunge whip nothing seems to wake her up or get her motivated on the flat. My problem with this is that I am just not in shape to push her forward, or use my leg super effectively. I want to make the most of my riding time, and I was wondering if anyone in similar situations has any advice for this. Is there any exercises I could be doing not at the barn to strengthen myself. Or should I be working on certain things on the flat to strengthen myself as well? Side note. The saddle I am riding in is brand new and not broken in yet which adds to my difficulty of getting the most out of my ride.
I would also like to add that it isn’t losing weight I am concerned with, but overall muscle strength especially in my core and legs.