That was chalk full of information Bluey and I always appreciate your posts on the forum, they always have so much to gleam from them. You can be harsh at times and I didn’t find that at all to be true in this response.
Reggie is the same age as Lilly but they have two totally different stories. Reggie was started by a professional trainer and is much further along in his training. I can take him into a walk trot tomorrow and not have to worry about him and just have to remember myself. He knows what do to.
Lilly has had to be retrained and I am doing the best I can under the eyes of my trainer and I am glad to see we have improvement! That alone speaks volumes.
What I am hearing from all this is that I need to relax some more, sink into my seat and get a grip on the reins. I do tend to hold them very lightly, like they are going to break. By doing that I will be getting more contact with the horse and communicating for the better.
Aktill. Thank you for that question, it is a great one. To me, for this horse I mean that her back is rounded and she is using her hindend and her trot is not strung out, that it is a smooth even trot that has her stepping under herself, one I can sit without feeling exhausted or like a bottle of ketchup someone has shaken to get it out. I can feel the difference in both horses. The gelding, its like driving a caddy, its smooth, a good even pace, he is a western horse so he has a nice Jog. For now Lilly is still in a trot and I don’t think she is ever going to get a jog as her stride is much longer then his. She won’t be a western pleasure horse, we are aiming for Western Dressage. She is like driving an old pick up truck with no suspension through a speed bump testing zone.