I have MS and am on an immunosuppressant, so I officially fall into a high-risk category and have been playing it safe since I work with researchers and front-line providers who have stressed that this is not something to take lightly. Meanwhile, the place where I lease has gone about life as usual. Now, as my state considers easing its stay-home order, I’m in a bind. I love riding, miss “my” horse and would go back in a heartbeat…but here’s the situation:
I’m the only person at this facility taking precautions. The tack room is a shared space with lots of high-touch surfaces. No one masks up, and from what I’ve seen on social the teens are still riding together and aren’t six feet apart on horseback let alone when tacking. I adore my instructor but she’s been posting things that make it clear she isn’t social distancing or following the guidelines either. The owners think everything’s fine since it’s a big property, and it’s been pretty clear that they think I’m being a little ridiculous for not coming out. (For the record, I don’t consider riding essential since my horse doesn’t depend on me for care or exercise. I hate not going, but we aren’t supposed to leave the house if it isn’t a must-run errand.)
Here’s where it gets tricky. Our curve is looking good, but the pandemic isn’t going anywhere anytime soon. My physicians agree that I need to WFH until there’s a vaccine or real herd immunity — so we are talking months to a year or more of being very cautious. I want to ride. This barn, this trainer, this horse have been a dream for me. But I’m scared. I think I’d feel safe if I didn’t feel like such a behavioral outlier there. I could come up with a system to glove-and-mask my way through things, try to schedule rides when no one’s there, and do everything possible to protect myself…but given the overall situation, it feels like a risk I shouldn’t take.
Fellow horse friends, I’m genuinely curious about what you’d do. No judgment from me — everyone is in a different situation. I’m just struggling and a little frustrated. And very, very sad.