Update! I saw the horse again. This time I asked to see him lunged first (although she said he didn’t need it.) No balking on the lunge per se. But there was a spot in one direction he kept wanting to kind of veer away and pull. The trainer does think that’s a continuum of the gate sourness.
I rode him first this time. No ugly faces for me, balking from the halt wasn’t too bad. But he did stop and talk in the middle of the trot after about 15/20 mins. Now I’m out of shape. Haven’t been riding regularly in months and was in a jumping saddle which isn’t my first choice. I fully take some blame being a little unbalanced at times. Trainer didn’t really see it but I certainly could feel it! Throughout the ride he was much, much more relaxed than the first ride. Looking at video, I should have kept him more forward even but was riding him in a different arena and was happy to feel him relax.
But I noticed that ultra respect from the whip, was nearly gone. He wasn’t rank to it but far less responsive. Now when he was going, it was freely forward. He definitely isn’t into use of the leg much. Using a bit of thigh and upper calve instead of lower worked better as well as clucking.
I did have trainer canter him and looked gorgeous. Honestly this horse looks like physically he could turn out a training level test with good scores no problem as far as movement. But he did balk into the transition with the trainer. He kicked out and kind of humped his back once. She got after him hard then he went fine.
So I don’t know. I can come back again, this time with a trainer to help coach me a bit. Movement wise, he’s absolutely what I should buy. It’s there. That’s a dressage horse in the making movement wise. And he is relaxed with me… I’m a quiet and sometimes too nice rider. So that is what worries me. Balking and not respecting the leg would really be a tough thing personality wise for me to deal with. Honestly I find dealing with spooking or nerves easier than riding a horse that really needs a strong use of the whip. So I don’t know. Maybe I’ll see how he’s going in a few more weeks. I let the seller know my concerns.