I bought Bob in Nov. 2023. He had been advertised on FB --sent to me by my trainer. Looking at his ad, pedigree, and pictures, he was priced low --not scary low --but enough that if he was everything he was said to be, he was going to sell fast.
But he was only 20 min from my farm. I arranged to see him the next day.
I called my lawyer kids (one is contract law) --he came up with a “contract to purchase” on the fly. Like you I was worried I’d hand over a deposit, and before the PPE, the seller would receive a higher offer and return my deposit…
I took $200 cash in hand, tried Bob, had my trainer try Bob, had my farrier look at feet and video (no way will I ever by a horse then spend the next 20 years hearing my farrier tell me if he’d seen the horse’s feet he would have told me not to buy it [eye roll]).
The seller took my deposit and signed the “intent to purchase” contract --that gave me 14 days (it was over Thanksgiving) to do a PPE, keep trying Bob in different settings on her farm and come up with the rest of the purchase price.
When pressed the seller said a “health problem and upcoming surgery” was her reason for selling Bob for less than she paid [true, I looked up his last sale ad on FB], and that he was herd aggressive [she had 4 horses on 2 acres of dry lot. Bob was constantly harassing the others].
And it all worked out. Bob passed the PPE, I paid (cashier’s check) for Bob. As it turned out, I actually knew her through 4-H --she’d been in the club with my kiddos --although 20-30 years ago. Not sure the health-surgery was 100% true because she bought another horse within a week --but since Bob was everything she said he was --I felt I had a good deal.
I think the main reason she sold him --she only had him 7 months --was he really is very herd aggressive. I have to keep him in a separate 5 acre field (shed, hay, water, horse neighbors on all sides of the fence).
So anyway —look on-line for an “Intent to Purchase” contract --make it your own --both of you sign and date it.
But be aware --if the seller defaults --you will only get your money back —probably --it is difficult to sue for “specific intent” (I think that’s the term) – can’t remember what kid said --in other words, you can relatively easily get your money back, and court costs --but you will not get the horse you wanted to buy --at best (remote) the seller who violated the contract would have to sell you another horse at the same price. Think cars --dealer takes your deposit for a car worth $10K then sells that exact car to someone else for $15K. Car dealer returns your deposit and you say, “No, I want the $10 K car.” In court, the judge would l(most likely) return your deposit and have the dealer give you a car worth the value of the $15 K car , same make, model, year etc—but in horses, that’s not the same . . .
Anyway, Bob worked out fine for me.
The seller did tell me she had a second offer from someone who was coming “on the weekend” and sight unseen had offered her more money. Probably, but you and I know that those “on the weekend” people could have been tire-kickers or never shown up.