[QUOTE=Gayle in Oregon;7777585]
I just hope that others who have stories to share (often they just say something happened to a ‘friend’ you may note), are not discouraged from sharing due to fear of ‘harsh’ and hard hearted comments and yes mean, poorly timed criticism. It stifles all and especially the meek ones from telling such stories. So, for those who feel they have to criticize and show your ‘superior’ ‘alfa’ intellect and practices, think of the long haul and how you may be scaring people from honestly sharing difficult but educational stories on this, what can be, helpful forum. You can win the battle and lose the war.[/QUOTE]
Sorry I tried to explain to you that for sure no one was bashing you and that even though you are having a thin skin a lot of others may not have and learn from those posts that you call harsh, unfriendly, unhelpful etc.
I now can only be harsh: what did you expect ?! that everyone gives you a pad on your back and tel you thank you thank you thank you and that no one expresses his/her opinion to your story and the decision that you took ?! If that is the case I feel sorry for you for not having the aility to not being able to forsee this and take it lightly and form taking any negative aspect personally.
It may have even to do with that you feel already bad and now may even feel worse upon your decision. (I can also understand that). But this is neither an issue of this forum, nor the problem of others beeing week and not write. Again thanks for outing a bad experience with a certain company.
Sorry for these now really harsh words.