I kicked my gelding in the chest this morning. It wasn’t hard, and it was a “backwards kick” (I was facing away from him and kicked out behind me like another horse would). It definitely didn’t hurt him, but it surprised him and he stopped his shenanigans immediately. He gets pushy when I bring hay out of the hay shelter and am carrying it to wherever I’m feeding it for the day. This morning it was raining and so I had to take it over to his stall. He’s right behind me, trying to snatch it out of my hand. I usually just ignore him or walk quickly and am always ready to throw an elbow at his nose if needed. He was far enough behind I didn’t think he’d try to get the hay and suddenly he bites ME (just my coat, but still) in a desperate grab for the hay. Keep in mind, he is not an aggressive horse in the least and would never bite a person on purpose. I’m to blame for letting him get so pushy when I’m carrying hay, and I’ve got to be consistent with stopping it. He’s a friendly, sweet horse, he really is. Ears are up when he makes the hay grab (coat grab this morning).
So, I stopped immediately, backed a step and kicked out, nailing him in the chest while making that noise we all make when correcting a horse (you all know the noise…I Have no idea how to spell it, LOL). He was so surprised and then slightly offended and turned away and stayed out while I put the hay in his stall. He knew he’d messed up. I continued to remind him that I was in charge and I’m the one who moves his feet and decides when and where he gets to eat.
I’ve definitely tossed some buckets in my day as well. I’ve fed a lot of horses over the past 36 years that I’ve been involved with them, and sometimes that has been feeding a herd of broodmares out in a pasture that are all trying to nail each other as I’m dishing out feed and hay. You have to be highly respected and somewhat feared in that scenario if you want to stay safe. Horses need to be trained to know that the very LAST thing they EVER want to do is hurt a human being either intentionally or by accident. They can push each other around all they want, but they need to tip-toe around the humans. They’re too big to have it any other way.
This forum is full of people who have decades of experience with all aspects of horse care. You take what advice you like and ignore what you don’t.