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Meant to add…
You don’t hit a horse with a longe whip either. It’s a guide. And even once a horse like this is responding both ways happily on the longe to voice commands, isn’t afraid of the whip, I’d still have a helper for the first mounting.
The is a dangerous situation. Probably best left to pros, but if you insist, then I’d take the long slow approach with this mare.[/QUOTE]
Have to disagree on use of a whip when long lining or lunging a horse. If the whip won’t reach the horse, why have whip at all? No you are not beating horse with the whip, but way too often I see folks trying to get horse going and getting laughed at by a poorly trained horse they can’t reach with the whip. I have enough lash on the whip to “reach out and touch him” if he is not obedient to the voice or lines out in the circle.
Does take a bit of skill to handle such a long whip and lash, so you are just touching for emphasis when horse ignores you. That is usually all it takes, a touch and horse understands you truly mean business.
But OP is not skilled at lunging, ground driving, long lining, so trying to redirect the horse with those methods sounds like she will be worse off than she started, especially holding ANY whip.
OP sounds like horse is about sick of her, not reading body signals, hurting the mare, and done with being misunderstood. I think OP had best step AWAY from this horse, turn it over to ANOTHER TRAINER before OP gets REALLY HURT. She is on borrowed time, not “getting it” with this horse.
Reading all this advice to OP doesn’t make her able to use it. As mentioned, this horse has her number, best to just get out of trying to “fix” what she caused on this horse before she gets hurt.