I’m not a foxhunter but have recently been riding in a large group. My horse is great alone but in groups becomes very strong. She does ok at the walk, but once we trot, I have to fight with her the whole way if I want to stay behind anyone. Then once we walk again, she wants to jig. Yesterday we had a very good stretch of dirt road and were able to gallop. I really let her blow off some steam. We also trotted quite a bit more than she is used to. By the end of the ride I was able to walk her home on the buckle, and she was happy to walk behind the group. Eventually, I would like to be able to trot with the group, on a light or looped rein. What is the best way to achieve this?
Will this eventually happen with enough practice in groups? Will she be able to start off the ride behaving nicely, or do some horses only chill after they are tired near the end of a ride? Normally when we are alone I tie my reins in a knot and we can trot the trails without my having to touch the reins. But in a group she has no brakes! I ride in a plain eggbutt. I am not sure about going to a stronger bit. I was thinking of trying a mechanical hackamore. Someone told me to ace her - I said no thanks. Ideas??